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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 98529" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>BBK, you are NOT the only one who is uncomfortable. Using a belt to beat a child will NOT get a more respectful child. It may have years ago, but I doubt it.</p><p></p><p>I know that if you use a belt the ONLY lessons that are given to the child are to be very AFRAID of the people who should shield him from the bad stuff in life. AND that it is OK to hit someone you are supposed to love and care for.</p><p></p><p>I can honestly say that I have NEVER known it to work any other way, especially especially especially for our difficult children.</p><p></p><p>difficult children DO NOT THINK THE WAY WE DO OR DID AS CHILDREN. This is WHY they are difficult children!!! </p><p></p><p>The time out with a twist is one thing. I think it is AWESOME and will happily do it with thank you as needed. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>This makes me stongly think there may be some sensory issues. Please look up info on Sensory Integration Disorder and see what you think. We have a lot of info on the site, and there is a lot more on the net. Good (awesome) books for this are The Out Of Sync Child and The Out of Sync Child has Fun by Kranowitz.</p><p></p><p>Please investigate this. There are non-medication ways to help with sensory issues so that your child CAN cope with what is going on around him. It may very well lead to a child who rages far less. been there done that and the rewards are amazing.</p><p></p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 98529, member: 1233"] BBK, you are NOT the only one who is uncomfortable. Using a belt to beat a child will NOT get a more respectful child. It may have years ago, but I doubt it. I know that if you use a belt the ONLY lessons that are given to the child are to be very AFRAID of the people who should shield him from the bad stuff in life. AND that it is OK to hit someone you are supposed to love and care for. I can honestly say that I have NEVER known it to work any other way, especially especially especially for our difficult children. difficult children DO NOT THINK THE WAY WE DO OR DID AS CHILDREN. This is WHY they are difficult children!!! The time out with a twist is one thing. I think it is AWESOME and will happily do it with thank you as needed. This makes me stongly think there may be some sensory issues. Please look up info on Sensory Integration Disorder and see what you think. We have a lot of info on the site, and there is a lot more on the net. Good (awesome) books for this are The Out Of Sync Child and The Out of Sync Child has Fun by Kranowitz. Please investigate this. There are non-medication ways to help with sensory issues so that your child CAN cope with what is going on around him. It may very well lead to a child who rages far less. been there done that and the rewards are amazing. Susie [/QUOTE]
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