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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 98604" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>The books that were suggested:</p><p></p><p>Out of Sync Child</p><p></p><p>and</p><p></p><p>The Explosive Child</p><p></p><p>Also, I keep seeing on the right margin of this site a book called</p><p></p><p>10 Days to a Less Defiant Child</p><p></p><p></p><p>All very good resources. It is going to take some undoing to get your son to understand a new way of discipline, if that is the road you choose to take. As a matter of fact, no I do not agree with washing a child's mouth our with soap. But know this, I am not one of those moms who sit there while my child tears up the house/school/store and says "now Sally, that's not nice, we don't dislocate other people's arms, do we?" A child can be disciplined without ever being touched. It can work. With any kid. And it is HARD work. It takes a lot of effort and consistency. </p><p></p><p>FWIW, I don't think Susie meant to twist your words. Whip and beat can and have been used interchangeably.</p><p></p><p>More importantly, we want to keep this a soft place and a safe place. We do not want anyone judging you. There is not one of us here who is perfect. We all are here to help eachother get through the common issues that we share.</p><p></p><p>If you ever feel uncomfortable on this site, at the hands of anyone, do not hesitate to PM a moderator.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 98604, member: 3647"] The books that were suggested: Out of Sync Child and The Explosive Child Also, I keep seeing on the right margin of this site a book called 10 Days to a Less Defiant Child All very good resources. It is going to take some undoing to get your son to understand a new way of discipline, if that is the road you choose to take. As a matter of fact, no I do not agree with washing a child's mouth our with soap. But know this, I am not one of those moms who sit there while my child tears up the house/school/store and says "now Sally, that's not nice, we don't dislocate other people's arms, do we?" A child can be disciplined without ever being touched. It can work. With any kid. And it is HARD work. It takes a lot of effort and consistency. FWIW, I don't think Susie meant to twist your words. Whip and beat can and have been used interchangeably. More importantly, we want to keep this a soft place and a safe place. We do not want anyone judging you. There is not one of us here who is perfect. We all are here to help eachother get through the common issues that we share. If you ever feel uncomfortable on this site, at the hands of anyone, do not hesitate to PM a moderator. [/QUOTE]
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