My 24 year old daughter has recently admitted to using Ice. She has been asked by her bosses to have time off work, I assuming because of her erratic behaviour. We helped her buy a car with the loan being in our name. She constantly misses car repayments and her new boyfriend has had an accident in her car with significant damage. My daughter claims that this is all going to be fixed by the boyfriend. Two days ago I received a credit card statement for a card I don't use which showed that $1500 had been placed on the card. I felt in shock when I realised that it must have been our daughter. I confronted her and she admitted to everything. I have told her that she has to pay the money back (which is impossible for her) and to stay well,away from me. I feel so annoyed at myself because I know I have enabled her behaviour by constantly paying off her debts, rent, giving her money for petrol etc, often hiding what I was doing from my family. I feel relieved that I have decided that enough is enough and No more of this pathetic parenting. My question is what should we do about the car if she doesn't pay the repayments etc...the loan and insurance is in our name? Plus the car is damaged so will be impossible to sell. The car cost $10 000 and was only purchased this year.