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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 398779" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I completely agree with taking away ALL access to electronics. She scours her friends' facebook for guys? She gets no access to facebook. Period. Take her phone, lock up the computers, tell school she is NOT to have ANY access to computers. Teachers will TRY to tell you that they cannot teach with-o the computer. They are NOT being truthful. It is more work for them but they CAN teach with-o the computer. Many of them did it for DECADES when at most they had ONE computer in the room. IF they had that. Be insistent, don't let her spend time with friends if she can use their computers. Go in and shut down her facebook, etc... </p><p> </p><p>It isn't easy, but it IS important. make SURE the school knows you will hold them accountable for ANY access to phones/computers at school because she is trolling for people to hurt the family. ANYONE that comes to hurt you and can be traced back to computer access at school will result in a lawsuit against the school. Just saying this will make most schools take all computer access away. We had to threaten it when Wiz was going nuts online - and he had a sp ed teacher feeding his computer compulsions and delusions! </p><p> </p><p>After that, make sure her friends' parents know that she is to have NO access because she is seeking dangerous things and that if their kids allow her to have internet access on their phones/computers it can be held against them in a court of law if anyone comes to hurt you - the other parents will stop her access if htey have any sense and most will, even if they think you are crazy. </p><p> </p><p>Once the safety stuff is done, let what you can go. Ignore as much as possible for your own peace of mind.</p><p> </p><p>Work on meditation if you can. There are a lot of different guided meditations out there - find one that you like and use it. </p><p> </p><p>I am sorry it is so hard to raise a difficult child. NOTHING you tell your difficult child is going to be believed. I am sorry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 398779, member: 1233"] I completely agree with taking away ALL access to electronics. She scours her friends' facebook for guys? She gets no access to facebook. Period. Take her phone, lock up the computers, tell school she is NOT to have ANY access to computers. Teachers will TRY to tell you that they cannot teach with-o the computer. They are NOT being truthful. It is more work for them but they CAN teach with-o the computer. Many of them did it for DECADES when at most they had ONE computer in the room. IF they had that. Be insistent, don't let her spend time with friends if she can use their computers. Go in and shut down her facebook, etc... It isn't easy, but it IS important. make SURE the school knows you will hold them accountable for ANY access to phones/computers at school because she is trolling for people to hurt the family. ANYONE that comes to hurt you and can be traced back to computer access at school will result in a lawsuit against the school. Just saying this will make most schools take all computer access away. We had to threaten it when Wiz was going nuts online - and he had a sp ed teacher feeding his computer compulsions and delusions! After that, make sure her friends' parents know that she is to have NO access because she is seeking dangerous things and that if their kids allow her to have internet access on their phones/computers it can be held against them in a court of law if anyone comes to hurt you - the other parents will stop her access if htey have any sense and most will, even if they think you are crazy. Once the safety stuff is done, let what you can go. Ignore as much as possible for your own peace of mind. Work on meditation if you can. There are a lot of different guided meditations out there - find one that you like and use it. I am sorry it is so hard to raise a difficult child. NOTHING you tell your difficult child is going to be believed. I am sorry. [/QUOTE]
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