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<blockquote data-quote="GoingNorth" data-source="post: 713870" data-attributes="member: 1963"><p>This is going to sound kinda counter-productive, and probably kind of harsh, too.</p><p></p><p>Give up on finding Mr. Right. Yup. Quit seeking relationships completely. If Mr. Right is out there, you'll find him. You won't find him because you are lonely and have a libido.</p><p></p><p>I had the type of relationship you dream of.I was friends with the guy for 2 years before that, and until it bowled us both other one night, the ideal of it becoming a romantic relationship would had both of us laughing our behinds off. </p><p></p><p>It was another two years before we became intimate. </p><p></p><p>We were together for nearly 25 years. I chose, after he died to seek neither sexual, nor emotional relationships on that level again, e.g. I'm celibate and happy that way.</p><p></p><p>You obviously are not. BUT, until you can live happily without a man, you won't find Mr. Right. </p><p></p><p>While the idea of not having had sex for 17 years might sound appalling to you (husband was incapable the last couple of years of his life), I have no interest in ever again having an emotional relationship of the depth requred for me to engage in sexual activity, and no interest in the activity.</p><p></p><p>That's actually not considered normal. However, I think you need to be complete in yourself as opposed to seeking a man to complete you. And, if you are sleeping with these guys, i suggest you stop doing so. See if any are willing to stay with you without that fringe benefit.</p><p></p><p>As regards your sex drive, there are many, many ways to deal with that without the help of another person.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="GoingNorth, post: 713870, member: 1963"] This is going to sound kinda counter-productive, and probably kind of harsh, too. Give up on finding Mr. Right. Yup. Quit seeking relationships completely. If Mr. Right is out there, you'll find him. You won't find him because you are lonely and have a libido. I had the type of relationship you dream of.I was friends with the guy for 2 years before that, and until it bowled us both other one night, the ideal of it becoming a romantic relationship would had both of us laughing our behinds off. It was another two years before we became intimate. We were together for nearly 25 years. I chose, after he died to seek neither sexual, nor emotional relationships on that level again, e.g. I'm celibate and happy that way. You obviously are not. BUT, until you can live happily without a man, you won't find Mr. Right. While the idea of not having had sex for 17 years might sound appalling to you (husband was incapable the last couple of years of his life), I have no interest in ever again having an emotional relationship of the depth requred for me to engage in sexual activity, and no interest in the activity. That's actually not considered normal. However, I think you need to be complete in yourself as opposed to seeking a man to complete you. And, if you are sleeping with these guys, i suggest you stop doing so. See if any are willing to stay with you without that fringe benefit. As regards your sex drive, there are many, many ways to deal with that without the help of another person. [/QUOTE]
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