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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 713887" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I can let go. I have had to with my mother disowning me and my sister doing it to me 100 times. I learned how to detach after the first shock and hurt subsided. So I will not pretend I was ever quite in your shoes, although I do have empath traits as well.</p><p></p><p>Some things about ourselves are worth changing. I have had to work hard to change things deeply ingrained within me that did not serve me well. One was feeling like I deserve the world to crap on me. It was a long hard trip to liking myself let alone loving myself. Feeling I deserve good, positive people in my life, not those who put me down...that took hard work. I thought i deserved to be criticized.. and now I know that was not true...ever. You maybe are better served in your life learning to let go of negative people, if necessary, even if it takes a lot of time to get there.</p><p></p><p>Like you said, you are still young. If you start concentrating on letting go now...one day you can probably do it.</p><p></p><p>CB, i do not feel inferior about how I look. And I am older and care less probably. But any man of any age or marital background who tried to tell me how beautiful I was all the time would make me suspicious that he was looking for sex only. Did you ever hear "If they seem too good to be true, they are?"</p><p></p><p>Narcicists and antisocials plow women with compliments just to win them over. .the abuse starts later. I recommend deleting those messages from the cheater and going cold turkey. Yes, it will be very painful at first. Intolerable. But time will take care of it and you will get over if. But only if you try.</p><p></p><p>Please...you are so much better than him. He isnt fit to share your space let alone rent a mental space in your head. You have morals. He doesnt.</p><p></p><p>Love and hugs!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 713887, member: 1550"] I can let go. I have had to with my mother disowning me and my sister doing it to me 100 times. I learned how to detach after the first shock and hurt subsided. So I will not pretend I was ever quite in your shoes, although I do have empath traits as well. Some things about ourselves are worth changing. I have had to work hard to change things deeply ingrained within me that did not serve me well. One was feeling like I deserve the world to crap on me. It was a long hard trip to liking myself let alone loving myself. Feeling I deserve good, positive people in my life, not those who put me down...that took hard work. I thought i deserved to be criticized.. and now I know that was not true...ever. You maybe are better served in your life learning to let go of negative people, if necessary, even if it takes a lot of time to get there. Like you said, you are still young. If you start concentrating on letting go now...one day you can probably do it. CB, i do not feel inferior about how I look. And I am older and care less probably. But any man of any age or marital background who tried to tell me how beautiful I was all the time would make me suspicious that he was looking for sex only. Did you ever hear "If they seem too good to be true, they are?" Narcicists and antisocials plow women with compliments just to win them over. .the abuse starts later. I recommend deleting those messages from the cheater and going cold turkey. Yes, it will be very painful at first. Intolerable. But time will take care of it and you will get over if. But only if you try. Please...you are so much better than him. He isnt fit to share your space let alone rent a mental space in your head. You have morals. He doesnt. Love and hugs!! [/QUOTE]
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