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Thank you so very much.  This morning I am still crying and it is just so incredibly hard to detach.  I've been going to therapy every week and it helps. My husband is able to let it go and trust but I come from a very dysfunctional family that I have mostly healed from - this just triggers all of it.  And I keep asking why?  Why is he so angry and rebellious and entitled.  And, how am I ever going to be able to live my life.  Thank you for expressing that I can eventually.  I read the irrational detachment thinking points and I am all of them.  You love your kid so much but the lying, manipulations, drugs just never cease.  I don't understand why I have to have to go through this.  But you do/did too and all of the wonderful people on this forum have. I feel so lucky to have found this because I am really needy in my hopelessness.  Thank you from the bottom of my heart for replying.....