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Gosh, you are good parents and so strong. I am sure we have enabled Nathan cause he is an entitled, lazy, unmotivated person. My husband says tough love and he is a teacher and was basically the only middle school teacher who did the hard stuff. All his students adore him but my son hates him unless he gets what he wants..... I AM THE WEAK LINK and let Nathan manipulate me and get in between us. I am letting my husband take control on this one. I don't want anything to do with decision because I feel myself weakening and I am literally sick to my stomach. My head is spinning and I have been playing the victim this morning crying and saying woah is me. I see you've had 3 difficult kids and have done the right thing.....I am not good at tough love - I HATE it. I know it is the only thing we can do but I literally don't know how to do it. So my husband will do the tough thing and I am staying out of it cause I will ruin it.........My son is blocked on my phone so he can only contact my husband. OMG i hate this so much.

<blockquote data-quote="YogiLori" data-source="post: 762733" data-attributes="member: 30044"><p>Gosh, you are good parents and so strong.&nbsp; I am sure we have enabled Nathan cause he is an entitled, lazy, unmotivated person.&nbsp; My husband says tough love and he is a teacher and was basically the only middle school teacher who did the hard stuff.&nbsp; All his students adore him but my son hates him unless he gets what he wants..... I AM THE WEAK LINK and let Nathan manipulate me and get in between us.&nbsp; I am letting my husband take control on this one.&nbsp; I don't want anything to do with decision because I feel myself weakening and I am literally sick to my stomach.&nbsp; My head is spinning and I have been playing the victim this morning crying and saying woah is me.&nbsp; I see you've had 3 difficult kids and have done the right thing.....I am not good at tough love - I HATE it.&nbsp; I know it is the only thing we can do but I literally don't know how to do it.&nbsp; So my husband will do the tough thing and I am staying out of it cause I will ruin it.........My son is blocked on my phone so he can only contact my husband.&nbsp; OMG i hate this so much.</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="YogiLori, post: 762733, member: 30044"] Gosh, you are good parents and so strong. I am sure we have enabled Nathan cause he is an entitled, lazy, unmotivated person. My husband says tough love and he is a teacher and was basically the only middle school teacher who did the hard stuff. All his students adore him but my son hates him unless he gets what he wants..... I AM THE WEAK LINK and let Nathan manipulate me and get in between us. I am letting my husband take control on this one. I don't want anything to do with decision because I feel myself weakening and I am literally sick to my stomach. My head is spinning and I have been playing the victim this morning crying and saying woah is me. I see you've had 3 difficult kids and have done the right thing.....I am not good at tough love - I HATE it. I know it is the only thing we can do but I literally don't know how to do it. So my husband will do the tough thing and I am staying out of it cause I will ruin it.........My son is blocked on my phone so he can only contact my husband. OMG i hate this so much. [/QUOTE]

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