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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 320175" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>I think that for you and for Matt you need to start swinging towards the acceptance that he is an adult and sometime, probably soon, he will no longer be in your control. If he wanted to call you he would. I suspect that he <em>may</em> want to talk to you, but the issue has become about whether or not you are constantly controlling his situation, not whether he needs and wants you. I really think that you won't be happy until you let him go, and let yourself realize that at some point he is going to be his own man - for better or worse. You want him to come to you when that time comes. Give him a chance to. Just MHO.</p><p></p><p>And I know it hurts a lot. We want you to take care of you as much as you would take care of Matt.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 320175, member: 99"] I think that for you and for Matt you need to start swinging towards the acceptance that he is an adult and sometime, probably soon, he will no longer be in your control. If he wanted to call you he would. I suspect that he [I]may[/I] want to talk to you, but the issue has become about whether or not you are constantly controlling his situation, not whether he needs and wants you. I really think that you won't be happy until you let him go, and let yourself realize that at some point he is going to be his own man - for better or worse. You want him to come to you when that time comes. Give him a chance to. Just MHO. And I know it hurts a lot. We want you to take care of you as much as you would take care of Matt. [/QUOTE]
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