Your poor little grandson, that must have been very scary and confusing for him.
The only suggestion I can offer is to remind them the next time to make sure they have a car seat.
I think it's wonderful that you can share with your other daughter. I do understand your concern about her losing respect for you but I don't think she will. Since you have been here with us you have grown and become a little stronger each day. I'm sure your daughter senses this change.
If detaching from our Difficult Child's was easy there would be no need for this site but it's not easy, it takes time and effort. You will get there ST

