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The problem with therapy is that a good one costs money, and my insurance doesnt cover it. I have been to alot of therapists in the last 20 years concerning her!!! And what they say makes sense when Im there but then when I get in the thick of a bad situation I cant seem to put it into practice. They basically just try to diagnose whats wrong with her and tell me the characteristics of that diagnosis. I just feel like Im the one who has to change and I cant seem to toughen up!! I have always been a very sensitive person and I dont know how to change that! The girls at work will talk about similar topics with their kids or husbands and they seem to be able to shrug it off better than me.....I dont know.....I am 62 and I feel like Im just gonna have to deal with who I am the rest of my life!

[QUOTE="sooooo tired, post: 668870, member: 18764"] The problem with therapy is that a good one costs money, and my insurance doesnt cover it. I have been to alot of therapists in the last 20 years concerning her!!! And what they say makes sense when Im there but then when I get in the thick of a bad situation I cant seem to put it into practice. They basically just try to diagnose whats wrong with her and tell me the characteristics of that diagnosis. I just feel like Im the one who has to change and I cant seem to toughen up!! I have always been a very sensitive person and I dont know how to change that! The girls at work will talk about similar topics with their kids or husbands and they seem to be able to shrug it off better than me.....I dont know.....I am 62 and I feel like Im just gonna have to deal with who I am the rest of my life! [/QUOTE]

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