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<blockquote data-quote="robinm1922" data-source="post: 264388" data-attributes="member: 6423"><p>I am so sorry you are going through this, maybe we can quit together and find a nice deserted island. We can sip some bahama mamma's, soak up the sun, listen to the waves roll in and dig our toes into the warm white sand! All of us that want to quit lets band together and take off!</p><p> </p><p>Well it was a nice mental image anyway! I am sorry you are in quite mode, I am there too most of the time.</p><p>difficult child takes everything out on me, I don't know if it is because I am safe and she knows I will love her no matter what or why but she does. It is wearing especially when they have no compassion, when I say I can't do it anymore she simply say then don't!</p><p>If it were just that easy.</p><p>Maybe if you dig your heels in and hold your ground everyone (husband mainly) will get a taste of how life really is, that and maybe your difficult child will see his actions don't effect you.</p><p>Do your best to not show emotion around him ignore and if need be walk away but try not to let him see you cry. I heard once crying is a sign (for some people) of defeat, for me it is a sign of frustration. If he thinks he has beat you then it is more fuel for him. Just maybe he will stop and wonder why you aren't reacting.</p><p>Make your husband shoulder everything you have been shouldering that will an eye opening experience for him in the end.</p><p>Hold strong and if need be take a mental vacation to our new Island (we need a name) where no one exists but ourselves.</p><p>That and a glass of wine, beer or cocktail might help too!</p><p>Cyber hugs to you,</p><p>Robin</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="robinm1922, post: 264388, member: 6423"] I am so sorry you are going through this, maybe we can quit together and find a nice deserted island. We can sip some bahama mamma's, soak up the sun, listen to the waves roll in and dig our toes into the warm white sand! All of us that want to quit lets band together and take off! Well it was a nice mental image anyway! I am sorry you are in quite mode, I am there too most of the time. difficult child takes everything out on me, I don't know if it is because I am safe and she knows I will love her no matter what or why but she does. It is wearing especially when they have no compassion, when I say I can't do it anymore she simply say then don't! If it were just that easy. Maybe if you dig your heels in and hold your ground everyone (husband mainly) will get a taste of how life really is, that and maybe your difficult child will see his actions don't effect you. Do your best to not show emotion around him ignore and if need be walk away but try not to let him see you cry. I heard once crying is a sign (for some people) of defeat, for me it is a sign of frustration. If he thinks he has beat you then it is more fuel for him. Just maybe he will stop and wonder why you aren't reacting. Make your husband shoulder everything you have been shouldering that will an eye opening experience for him in the end. Hold strong and if need be take a mental vacation to our new Island (we need a name) where no one exists but ourselves. That and a glass of wine, beer or cocktail might help too! Cyber hugs to you, Robin [/QUOTE]
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