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<blockquote data-quote="Jody" data-source="post: 356404" data-attributes="member: 8787"><p>I don't know that you have been but I definately have been not expecting much work out of mine. When I look at how little she does around the house and then doesn't even do that well, compared to what we used to do. we used to work all day out in the yard gardening, mowing, pulling weeds, we cleaned the house (all of us). I have to say that I don't much like mine either. She has put me through so much, it's hard to. Plus she's still doing it and there is more to come, I am sure. I used to feel bad, I don't anymore. I feed, clothe, educate and keep a roof over her head. It is hard to do that sometimes because of her behavior. When I go to the grocery store, I do not buy her any goodies like I used to. I buy what I like, want and what we need with no demands, begging, or pleas she's not getting anything from me. i would like to do something nice for her, but as soon as I do, SHE'S Baaaaacccckkkk in full force. Not going there. It's easier to not do things than I thought, it took a long, long time for me to get here. Sometimes she doesn't even ask now, because she knows the answer is NO, NO, NO. Not doing it. I told her no, I am not going to do that for you, I am going to take that money and go get my nails done, or a hairstyle for me. She absolutely hates to hear that my money is being spent on me and not her. WOW. She doesn't want to hear it so she has opted to shut-up at times. </p><p> </p><p>I also, I know probably bad parenting, but she has got it for the time being. She always likes to tear up my things and my house. Well I warned her at the therapists office, if you break something of mine then I break something of yours. Guess what she broke something, and it killed me to waste the money but I picked up her stereo and broke it right on the floor. She could not believe it. It figuritevely hit her in the gut and though she has wanted to break something she has not. I thought well I could have given that to another kid or taken it away, but then you get the begging and the pleading and the whining, and they don't really care because they think they can drive you crazy enough to get it back. Not happening. hang in there. I bet there are a lot of us hear that don't like our kids, but still love them. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite8" alt=":D" title="Big Grin :D" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":D" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jody, post: 356404, member: 8787"] I don't know that you have been but I definately have been not expecting much work out of mine. When I look at how little she does around the house and then doesn't even do that well, compared to what we used to do. we used to work all day out in the yard gardening, mowing, pulling weeds, we cleaned the house (all of us). I have to say that I don't much like mine either. She has put me through so much, it's hard to. Plus she's still doing it and there is more to come, I am sure. I used to feel bad, I don't anymore. I feed, clothe, educate and keep a roof over her head. It is hard to do that sometimes because of her behavior. When I go to the grocery store, I do not buy her any goodies like I used to. I buy what I like, want and what we need with no demands, begging, or pleas she's not getting anything from me. i would like to do something nice for her, but as soon as I do, SHE'S Baaaaacccckkkk in full force. Not going there. It's easier to not do things than I thought, it took a long, long time for me to get here. Sometimes she doesn't even ask now, because she knows the answer is NO, NO, NO. Not doing it. I told her no, I am not going to do that for you, I am going to take that money and go get my nails done, or a hairstyle for me. She absolutely hates to hear that my money is being spent on me and not her. WOW. She doesn't want to hear it so she has opted to shut-up at times. I also, I know probably bad parenting, but she has got it for the time being. She always likes to tear up my things and my house. Well I warned her at the therapists office, if you break something of mine then I break something of yours. Guess what she broke something, and it killed me to waste the money but I picked up her stereo and broke it right on the floor. She could not believe it. It figuritevely hit her in the gut and though she has wanted to break something she has not. I thought well I could have given that to another kid or taken it away, but then you get the begging and the pleading and the whining, and they don't really care because they think they can drive you crazy enough to get it back. Not happening. hang in there. I bet there are a lot of us hear that don't like our kids, but still love them. :happy: [/QUOTE]
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