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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 356503" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I know it hurts to hear her tell you that you are abusive. It seems that most difficult children throw this out as an excuse for whatever. You know you are not abusive. Not in the least. </p><p></p><p>She will NOT die if she doesn't get her organic whatevers and special foods. Buy what fits into the budget and tell her to eat it or starve. As much is possible ignore her. Insist that she take her medications. Maybe tell her you will keep her fancy milk in the house IF she takes her medications for the entire week.If that will motivate her.</p><p></p><p>Get a therapist of your own. PLEASE. You need more than us telling you that these problems are HERS and not your. Regardless of the garbage her mouth spews, this is NOT YOUR FAULT. Period. It just is what it is.</p><p></p><p>You are only required to provide a bed, blankets, clothing (NOT stuff she likes, just clothing), and food. If you cut down to the bare minimum and only give her the extras if she has earned them you will be on the road to teaching her a valuable life lesson.</p><p></p><p>Your therapist will be able to reassure you that she is not believable and it is NOT your fault. She may be able to help you figure out ways to keep your sanity.</p><p></p><p>In the meantime, with all her conflama, verbal diarrhea, and angst, I strongly suggest you invest in some earplugs. If you cannot hear her it won't bother you.</p><p></p><p>My Gma (I) wore hearing aids. she and my Gpa even took sign language and lip reading classes, and let gfgbro and I go with them when we were visiting. She was great at lip reading. My Gpa could go on tears and get really verbally unpleasant. So she would reach up and "scratch her ear". In reality she turned her hearing aid off. She would sit there and nod, say "uh uh" and other little things, while hearing NONE of it. </p><p></p><p>I have often been envious of that, esp with my gfgbro around.</p><p></p><p>Earplugs are pretty cheap. Usually they are with the contact lens solution stuff at the store.</p><p></p><p>difficult child NEEDS to do some chores, but I know that it is often harder to get her to do it than to do it yourself. Just relax on doing her stuff. Do yours and let her figure her own out.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry that things are so rough. I understand not liking your child. It is ok.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 356503, member: 1233"] I know it hurts to hear her tell you that you are abusive. It seems that most difficult children throw this out as an excuse for whatever. You know you are not abusive. Not in the least. She will NOT die if she doesn't get her organic whatevers and special foods. Buy what fits into the budget and tell her to eat it or starve. As much is possible ignore her. Insist that she take her medications. Maybe tell her you will keep her fancy milk in the house IF she takes her medications for the entire week.If that will motivate her. Get a therapist of your own. PLEASE. You need more than us telling you that these problems are HERS and not your. Regardless of the garbage her mouth spews, this is NOT YOUR FAULT. Period. It just is what it is. You are only required to provide a bed, blankets, clothing (NOT stuff she likes, just clothing), and food. If you cut down to the bare minimum and only give her the extras if she has earned them you will be on the road to teaching her a valuable life lesson. Your therapist will be able to reassure you that she is not believable and it is NOT your fault. She may be able to help you figure out ways to keep your sanity. In the meantime, with all her conflama, verbal diarrhea, and angst, I strongly suggest you invest in some earplugs. If you cannot hear her it won't bother you. My Gma (I) wore hearing aids. she and my Gpa even took sign language and lip reading classes, and let gfgbro and I go with them when we were visiting. She was great at lip reading. My Gpa could go on tears and get really verbally unpleasant. So she would reach up and "scratch her ear". In reality she turned her hearing aid off. She would sit there and nod, say "uh uh" and other little things, while hearing NONE of it. I have often been envious of that, esp with my gfgbro around. Earplugs are pretty cheap. Usually they are with the contact lens solution stuff at the store. difficult child NEEDS to do some chores, but I know that it is often harder to get her to do it than to do it yourself. Just relax on doing her stuff. Do yours and let her figure her own out. I am so sorry that things are so rough. I understand not liking your child. It is ok. [/QUOTE]
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