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I really hate this whole situation
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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 587610" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>I agree it is so very hard, stay strong! I felt so hurt when my difficult child's girl friend said I should be on trial and sent to prison for the way I treated difficult child. She said I was spending all this money on my hobbies when he had nothing, I never loved him only his sister. </p><p></p><p>I wanted to say I worked for mine, get off your fat a** and get a job, but I bit my tongue and just hung up the phone. difficult child is 34yo and she is 38yo and she still thinks the family should support them. I'm passed the guilt, but when someone accuses me of being a bad mother it still can make me second guess myself.</p><p></p><p>I may never hear from my son again, regardless, I could not continue with our relationship until he gets serious about helping himself. The things my son did to me physically and emotionally I have forgiven him for, it's in the past, I refuse to allow him to treat me that way ever again.</p><p></p><p>It is stressful dodging questions from family, especially today at our family Easter party. I don't want him to be talked about when he is not there to defend himself, and they don't know all of the facts. I only discuss my difficult child with his sister, hubby, and a little with one sister. </p><p></p><p>(((huggs and best wishes)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 587610, member: 13558"] I agree it is so very hard, stay strong! I felt so hurt when my difficult child's girl friend said I should be on trial and sent to prison for the way I treated difficult child. She said I was spending all this money on my hobbies when he had nothing, I never loved him only his sister. I wanted to say I worked for mine, get off your fat a** and get a job, but I bit my tongue and just hung up the phone. difficult child is 34yo and she is 38yo and she still thinks the family should support them. I'm passed the guilt, but when someone accuses me of being a bad mother it still can make me second guess myself. I may never hear from my son again, regardless, I could not continue with our relationship until he gets serious about helping himself. The things my son did to me physically and emotionally I have forgiven him for, it's in the past, I refuse to allow him to treat me that way ever again. It is stressful dodging questions from family, especially today at our family Easter party. I don't want him to be talked about when he is not there to defend himself, and they don't know all of the facts. I only discuss my difficult child with his sister, hubby, and a little with one sister. (((huggs and best wishes))) [/QUOTE]
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