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I saw a counselor today
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<blockquote data-quote="donna723" data-source="post: 235903" data-attributes="member: 1883"><p>If I were you, I would! I certainly did when I was going through it! Use that time, with the counselor there as a mediator, to get it all off your chest, to confront him with everything you need to get answers to. Use it as kind of your 'safe zone'. If he tries to put you off or minimize your feelings or be evasive again, the counselor will certainly call him on it and won't let him get away with it. He won't be able to tap dance around the counselor. You need this for YOU! Really, at this point, I don't think you have much to lose.</p><p> </p><p>But are you sure he will even go? If he doesn't, go by yourself and talk it through, get your feelings heard, get some validation for YOU!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="donna723, post: 235903, member: 1883"] If I were you, I would! I certainly did when I was going through it! Use that time, with the counselor there as a mediator, to get it all off your chest, to confront him with everything you need to get answers to. Use it as kind of your 'safe zone'. If he tries to put you off or minimize your feelings or be evasive again, the counselor will certainly call him on it and won't let him get away with it. He won't be able to tap dance around the counselor. You need this for YOU! Really, at this point, I don't think you have much to lose. But are you sure he will even go? If he doesn't, go by yourself and talk it through, get your feelings heard, get some validation for YOU! [/QUOTE]
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