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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 235913"><p>This is the mans title. Not sure what some of it means, but sounds impressive.</p><p> </p><p>Ph.D., DAPBS</p><p>diplomate Forensic Psychology, American Board of Psychological Specialties.</p><p> </p><p>This is the man that sees difficult child. He is also the one that husband and I will see. I see his wife. </p><p> </p><p>I saw difficult child respond to him in a way I have never seen difficult child respond. Hoping that since this man will know OUR problems, he will be able to guide difficult child through what ever lays ahead.</p><p> </p><p>I don't know what I am suppose to feel. I don't know where my life is going. I DO know if anything happens to husband, difficult child will blame me. He has already told me what a horrible person I am and how I blame dad for everything. Little does he know.</p><p> </p><p>When I called husband and told him what I found out and asked him why, he found excuses which I already stated. Also said he didn't do it that many times...your nuts.</p><p>So I printed it off. highlighted everyone. Handed it to him when I got home. He put it on the table and said, "I don't care what it says, I didn't do it that many times".</p><p>It has been two days and it is still on the table. Plain view for difficult child or easy child. All the video's have names. They would actually have to turn the page though.</p><p> </p><p>I think in husband's mind, he believes if he doesn't look at it-- then it didn't happen. But this DID happen. Whether he looks at it or not is not an issue to me. AND the dr. has a copy also.</p><p> </p><p>husband was in a very bad state when I left. Either acting super, super depressed or he actually hit the bottom. Don't know, don't care. All I care about is difficult child not getting hurt in this process. I am afraid now that husband may do something. difficult child would blame me and never forgive me. Not even knowing.</p><p> </p><p>Should I be feeling bad for husband? Is he truely sick? ah...yes he is truly sick. But it has been 22 years and it has always been my fault. Is that because he never wanted to face things? Is there any help that will actually help? Is there any hope? Hope for him? Not for me. I don't know where I am headed.</p><p> </p><p>Any suggestions on where I can actually find a friend? a real physical friend? I don't drink. Work in a data center so it is triple locked and nobody can get in. Who would want to in the middle of the night.</p><p> </p><p>sorry I am going on so much. I have nobody but you guys. And you really help. I feel guilty too because this isn't much about difficult child directly. And that is what this board is for. Sorry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 235913"] This is the mans title. Not sure what some of it means, but sounds impressive. Ph.D., DAPBS diplomate Forensic Psychology, American Board of Psychological Specialties. This is the man that sees difficult child. He is also the one that husband and I will see. I see his wife. I saw difficult child respond to him in a way I have never seen difficult child respond. Hoping that since this man will know OUR problems, he will be able to guide difficult child through what ever lays ahead. I don't know what I am suppose to feel. I don't know where my life is going. I DO know if anything happens to husband, difficult child will blame me. He has already told me what a horrible person I am and how I blame dad for everything. Little does he know. When I called husband and told him what I found out and asked him why, he found excuses which I already stated. Also said he didn't do it that many times...your nuts. So I printed it off. highlighted everyone. Handed it to him when I got home. He put it on the table and said, "I don't care what it says, I didn't do it that many times". It has been two days and it is still on the table. Plain view for difficult child or easy child. All the video's have names. They would actually have to turn the page though. I think in husband's mind, he believes if he doesn't look at it-- then it didn't happen. But this DID happen. Whether he looks at it or not is not an issue to me. AND the dr. has a copy also. husband was in a very bad state when I left. Either acting super, super depressed or he actually hit the bottom. Don't know, don't care. All I care about is difficult child not getting hurt in this process. I am afraid now that husband may do something. difficult child would blame me and never forgive me. Not even knowing. Should I be feeling bad for husband? Is he truely sick? ah...yes he is truly sick. But it has been 22 years and it has always been my fault. Is that because he never wanted to face things? Is there any help that will actually help? Is there any hope? Hope for him? Not for me. I don't know where I am headed. Any suggestions on where I can actually find a friend? a real physical friend? I don't drink. Work in a data center so it is triple locked and nobody can get in. Who would want to in the middle of the night. sorry I am going on so much. I have nobody but you guys. And you really help. I feel guilty too because this isn't much about difficult child directly. And that is what this board is for. Sorry. [/QUOTE]
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