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<blockquote data-quote="Esri" data-source="post: 633825" data-attributes="member: 18126"><p>I am glad she wants to be an adult. But since she has moved out, she has been everything but.</p><p></p><p>She got fired from one job,put her two weeks in her other (main job) tried to retract her 2 weeks but they denied and said it would be better for her to leave because she wasn't doing a great job and it would look better than a termination. So now she has no job. Not sure she will even finish her last week. I had to talk to her into staying the day this happened. She texted me with how much everyone at her job can eff off and there are this and that.....I don't know what to do. I told her to stay and finish her time. She asked so I told.</p><p></p><p>She blames everyone else. She's spent $1800 of her graduation money in a matter if weeks. Shes has gotten 3 new body piercings, (that I don't care about, but it's just more change that happened so fast) She's smoking cigs and worse, pot and drinking. </p><p></p><p>Her wanting to leave to become and adult, I get. The way she did it (moved out when my husband and I were out of town) and the way she has treated us since, is the issue I have.</p><p></p><p>We are talking a bit more and I am learning that I can not change her, I am only be here for her. I have been a</p><p>in a horrible state since she left but I am now working on ME. My other daughter and husband need me.</p><p></p><p>I love my daughter. I need to learn my new role in all if this.</p><p></p><p>These are her mistake to make. I just hope she does learn from them, stays safe and wants to better herself.</p><p></p><p>Thank you all again for the support.</p><p></p><p></p><p>ME 42 husband 40</p><p>DD1 18 DD2 9</p><p></p><p>My oldest moved out a week </p><p>after turning 18. It wasn't on good terms. Her choice. Since moving out she has not made good choices. Looking for advice.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Esri, post: 633825, member: 18126"] I am glad she wants to be an adult. But since she has moved out, she has been everything but. She got fired from one job,put her two weeks in her other (main job) tried to retract her 2 weeks but they denied and said it would be better for her to leave because she wasn't doing a great job and it would look better than a termination. So now she has no job. Not sure she will even finish her last week. I had to talk to her into staying the day this happened. She texted me with how much everyone at her job can eff off and there are this and that.....I don't know what to do. I told her to stay and finish her time. She asked so I told. She blames everyone else. She's spent $1800 of her graduation money in a matter if weeks. Shes has gotten 3 new body piercings, (that I don't care about, but it's just more change that happened so fast) She's smoking cigs and worse, pot and drinking. Her wanting to leave to become and adult, I get. The way she did it (moved out when my husband and I were out of town) and the way she has treated us since, is the issue I have. We are talking a bit more and I am learning that I can not change her, I am only be here for her. I have been a in a horrible state since she left but I am now working on ME. My other daughter and husband need me. I love my daughter. I need to learn my new role in all if this. These are her mistake to make. I just hope she does learn from them, stays safe and wants to better herself. Thank you all again for the support. ME 42 husband 40 DD1 18 DD2 9 My oldest moved out a week after turning 18. It wasn't on good terms. Her choice. Since moving out she has not made good choices. Looking for advice. [/QUOTE]
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