She came over for the first time all summer since she left. She was polite and kind but she is still very immature. My other daughter was very happy to see her. I'm not even sure how to describe how I feel. I was happy to see her but sad and disappointed when she told me about her summer. I kind of wish she didn't. I also know she lied to me. I checked her phone GPS tonight when she wasn't here at the time she said she would be. She told me she was getting ready. I know she was at an ex boyfriends house. I didn't say anything about it because she doesn't know I check her whereabouts. Which leads to another thing. As I wait for my Codependent No More book to arrive, I know I check that GPS too much. I feel like a stalker. Torn because I want to check her whereabouts but am usually disappointed when I know. I tell myself I'm checking for my peace of mind. Another thing that I need to work on for me. I wish I had better words to explain tonight. I am sad because I don't see her path changing anytime soon. ME 42 husband 40 DD1 18 DD2 9 My oldest moved out a week after turning 18. I'm really struggling. Looking for advice.