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<blockquote data-quote="1905" data-source="post: 405301" data-attributes="member: 2668"><p>I think you were being a very good mom to easy child. You had just gotten home and gave her her own night, for her to just be herself and relax with friends. She had fun and was happy for it. As for difficult child, well she's the one who has to get used to certain things. She has to learn it's ok for people to sing-or whatever- it's ok, she has to calm down. The other family members (especially easy child) can't be berated for always bowing down to difficult child's wishes. Out in the world this is what it's like, strangers won't stop singing or whatever. She really has to be able to realize that even though she may not like certain things, they're there, be strong, it'll stop soon. Put headphones on her, let her listen to music, or a book on tape, or maybe go for a walk, or go to the far end of the house. Anything so she won't hear- if that was the problem.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="1905, post: 405301, member: 2668"] I think you were being a very good mom to easy child. You had just gotten home and gave her her own night, for her to just be herself and relax with friends. She had fun and was happy for it. As for difficult child, well she's the one who has to get used to certain things. She has to learn it's ok for people to sing-or whatever- it's ok, she has to calm down. The other family members (especially easy child) can't be berated for always bowing down to difficult child's wishes. Out in the world this is what it's like, strangers won't stop singing or whatever. She really has to be able to realize that even though she may not like certain things, they're there, be strong, it'll stop soon. Put headphones on her, let her listen to music, or a book on tape, or maybe go for a walk, or go to the far end of the house. Anything so she won't hear- if that was the problem. [/QUOTE]
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