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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 269797" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Go and have a nice visit and forget about all the tomorrows. This first visit doesnt have to be about what he did and why he is there and all that jazz. Just have a visit. You can decide to start dealing with the hard stuff at a later date. </p><p></p><p>If you can get the family therapy I would even keep the visiting and dealing with the hard stuff completely separate. </p><p></p><p>But for now...just visit. And do keep in mind, this is going to be so hard on both of you. I dont know how they do it but you probably have to leave your purse in the car and go through a body search or metal detector. Or some kind of search thing. Awful. You probably cant touch him. It will be so hard. I always left visiting days in tears. </p><p></p><p>But at least he is alive and you know where he is. That is more than some mom's know. It will be ok. He will be ok. You will be ok. I have a good feeling about all this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 269797, member: 1514"] Go and have a nice visit and forget about all the tomorrows. This first visit doesnt have to be about what he did and why he is there and all that jazz. Just have a visit. You can decide to start dealing with the hard stuff at a later date. If you can get the family therapy I would even keep the visiting and dealing with the hard stuff completely separate. But for now...just visit. And do keep in mind, this is going to be so hard on both of you. I dont know how they do it but you probably have to leave your purse in the car and go through a body search or metal detector. Or some kind of search thing. Awful. You probably cant touch him. It will be so hard. I always left visiting days in tears. But at least he is alive and you know where he is. That is more than some mom's know. It will be ok. He will be ok. You will be ok. I have a good feeling about all this. [/QUOTE]
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