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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 374645" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>You are absolutely right. </p><p> </p><p>I guess way back when, when difficult child 1 was still here, we obliterated the step line because it made difficult child 1 feel bad (because he was a step that "didn't belong" - and nothing was further from the truth). Back in the day when husband actually participated in this family. He had my back, and I had his. 'Cept somewhere along the way, he's abandoned me.</p><p> </p><p>I told him tonight he needs to consider switching her visits here to days that aren't school nights. He didn't like it, but I don't care. Allowing her to run hilly-nilly sets a very poor example for Wee, who DOESN"T have another parent's house to go to, and I'm done being the gaurd dog.</p><p> </p><p>My intent with the ipod was simply to tell him she had it and let him do (or not do) with it as he may. Had Wee not run out there, I would have stayed out of it. As it was, I stepped in with regards to her action to Wee, and simply took the Ipad in the house. That was it. </p><p> </p><p>It was husband coddling her (and, in my mind, may as well have told me to fly a kite) that I got ticked off, and that part has nothing to do, really, with cgfg.</p><p> </p><p>But you're right. I'm done with that situation.</p><p> </p><p>We have a Wed night girls riding group. Cgfg text mesaged me tonight wanting to play softball. I deferred to dad. He said sure. So, I can be home and loaded and left for riding before she gets home from ball practice. </p><p> </p><p>Perfect.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 374645, member: 1848"] You are absolutely right. I guess way back when, when difficult child 1 was still here, we obliterated the step line because it made difficult child 1 feel bad (because he was a step that "didn't belong" - and nothing was further from the truth). Back in the day when husband actually participated in this family. He had my back, and I had his. 'Cept somewhere along the way, he's abandoned me. I told him tonight he needs to consider switching her visits here to days that aren't school nights. He didn't like it, but I don't care. Allowing her to run hilly-nilly sets a very poor example for Wee, who DOESN"T have another parent's house to go to, and I'm done being the gaurd dog. My intent with the ipod was simply to tell him she had it and let him do (or not do) with it as he may. Had Wee not run out there, I would have stayed out of it. As it was, I stepped in with regards to her action to Wee, and simply took the Ipad in the house. That was it. It was husband coddling her (and, in my mind, may as well have told me to fly a kite) that I got ticked off, and that part has nothing to do, really, with cgfg. But you're right. I'm done with that situation. We have a Wed night girls riding group. Cgfg text mesaged me tonight wanting to play softball. I deferred to dad. He said sure. So, I can be home and loaded and left for riding before she gets home from ball practice. Perfect. [/QUOTE]
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