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I spent the morning in tears...
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<blockquote data-quote="TheWalrus" data-source="post: 678194" data-attributes="member: 19905"><p>I am much better today. No contact. My husband, due to his line of work, is pretty immune to what people say and is quite direct. He made it clear to them that if they wanted details, they needed to ask her. As to their concern she would lie, he admitted that was a possibility. But that was it. He made it clear to go through him and not me if they absolutely had to call. He handles it better, doesn't take it personally, lets it go as soon as the call is over. He doesn't get "cornered" or let her or others make him feel guilty or bad about her situation. They are her choices, her consequences, and he moves on. Me? I ruminate and stress and wind myself up in knots until I can't eat or sleep and become all consumed with it. I thank God for him every day. I wish I had some of his body armor or whatever it is that lets this all bounce off of him. He loves her, but he has a "take no sh*t" attitude with her. If he could put that in a prescription, we would make MILLIONS. LOL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TheWalrus, post: 678194, member: 19905"] I am much better today. No contact. My husband, due to his line of work, is pretty immune to what people say and is quite direct. He made it clear to them that if they wanted details, they needed to ask her. As to their concern she would lie, he admitted that was a possibility. But that was it. He made it clear to go through him and not me if they absolutely had to call. He handles it better, doesn't take it personally, lets it go as soon as the call is over. He doesn't get "cornered" or let her or others make him feel guilty or bad about her situation. They are her choices, her consequences, and he moves on. Me? I ruminate and stress and wind myself up in knots until I can't eat or sleep and become all consumed with it. I thank God for him every day. I wish I had some of his body armor or whatever it is that lets this all bounce off of him. He loves her, but he has a "take no sh*t" attitude with her. If he could put that in a prescription, we would make MILLIONS. LOL [/QUOTE]
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