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<blockquote data-quote="Ironbutterfly" data-source="post: 678458" data-attributes="member: 19951"><p>I would have your husband call her. She knows how to make you feel guilty. I had to do this couple of times with my son. I had him talk to my hubby (his step-dad). He can remain unemotional, speaks with authority and doesn't get sucked into being made to feel guilty. It takes the pressure off of me, I know my hubby is level-headed and will talk to him man to man. </p><p></p><p>Just because she wants to talk to you- doesn't mean she gets to. YOU talk to her when you are strong enough to do so. I use to get calls or texts messages "call me now Mom". I was like NO, you don't get to tell me when I need to call you, I will call when I feel I can talk without getting pulled into psycho drama or baited into feeling guilty about the latest emergency that I need to fix.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ironbutterfly, post: 678458, member: 19951"] I would have your husband call her. She knows how to make you feel guilty. I had to do this couple of times with my son. I had him talk to my hubby (his step-dad). He can remain unemotional, speaks with authority and doesn't get sucked into being made to feel guilty. It takes the pressure off of me, I know my hubby is level-headed and will talk to him man to man. Just because she wants to talk to you- doesn't mean she gets to. YOU talk to her when you are strong enough to do so. I use to get calls or texts messages "call me now Mom". I was like NO, you don't get to tell me when I need to call you, I will call when I feel I can talk without getting pulled into psycho drama or baited into feeling guilty about the latest emergency that I need to fix. [/QUOTE]
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