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I *think* difficult child will be back in town soon. here we go again...
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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 533107"><p>Wise words CJ. Something to ponder. We've been there done that - drove up to see him in November to break the ice b4 he came home for the holidays. So I am not sure h will be willing to do it again. But maybe I will do it alone.. I've got to sit on my fingers and let this unfold for a bit. Did I mention that I am not a patient person? :-/</p><p></p><p>In the meantime-difficult child IS back in town & we haven't heard from him. I know he's back bc I checked his phone records & they're in real time. The odd numbers I saw? I googled & they're Craigslist scam calls. Yep, he listed the laptop we gave him for christmas on CL. Just like you all warned me he would way back in december. Live & learn. Every gift we gave him in the past 2 years is gone. No more gifts in his future. Also seems to suggest he has no real plans to go back to school. On 1 hand, checking his phone records is probably "dialing pain" yet on the other hand-it helps me let go. Shatters any illusions. Dose of reality. Plus I know he is alive. How pathetic. </p><p></p><p>Between the laptop & the radio silence -- I'm hurt & h's MAD. H can't understand why I'm hurt and not mad and vice versa. So he gets madder and I get sadder. I hate this. Trying hard to acknowledge it/recognize it before it wears on us as a couple. Ugh...Here we go.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 533107"] Wise words CJ. Something to ponder. We've been there done that - drove up to see him in November to break the ice b4 he came home for the holidays. So I am not sure h will be willing to do it again. But maybe I will do it alone.. I've got to sit on my fingers and let this unfold for a bit. Did I mention that I am not a patient person? :-/ In the meantime-difficult child IS back in town & we haven't heard from him. I know he's back bc I checked his phone records & they're in real time. The odd numbers I saw? I googled & they're Craigslist scam calls. Yep, he listed the laptop we gave him for christmas on CL. Just like you all warned me he would way back in december. Live & learn. Every gift we gave him in the past 2 years is gone. No more gifts in his future. Also seems to suggest he has no real plans to go back to school. On 1 hand, checking his phone records is probably "dialing pain" yet on the other hand-it helps me let go. Shatters any illusions. Dose of reality. Plus I know he is alive. How pathetic. Between the laptop & the radio silence -- I'm hurt & h's MAD. H can't understand why I'm hurt and not mad and vice versa. So he gets madder and I get sadder. I hate this. Trying hard to acknowledge it/recognize it before it wears on us as a couple. Ugh...Here we go. [/QUOTE]
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