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I think I may have lost my son today
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 735336" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Hi.</p><p></p><p>Oh dear.</p><p></p><p>There is a silver lining I see.</p><p></p><p>Child protective services has responded to their accusations and come back with orders to your mom to comply with all that you wanted! Supervision, media, treatment, etc.</p><p></p><p>They (mom and son) gave it their best shot. Nothing.</p><p></p><p>____</p><p></p><p>Your mother sorry to say is an untrustworthy nutcase. Forgive me. You knew it going in. You felt you had no other options at that time.</p><p></p><p>Your son continues vulnerable. But less so. With you guys at a distance the proximate triggers and his ability to easily and directly hurt you are reduced.</p><p></p><p>In this world we can do only what we can do. You have examined every course of action and no other option has yet presented itself.</p><p></p><p>You are doing a great deal by providing the best treatment for him you can. In a sense these professionals and the lawyer are implementing your parenting directives. You are parenting him: just not hands on.</p><p></p><p>To me this has got to be enough right now. Your son will not permit more.</p><p></p><p>My concern is not so much him. But you--.that you somehow find a way to protect yourself in every way and that you be able to let go.</p><p></p><p>No other mother could do more.</p><p></p><p>That has to be enough.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry this is so hard for us.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 735336, member: 18958"] Hi. Oh dear. There is a silver lining I see. Child protective services has responded to their accusations and come back with orders to your mom to comply with all that you wanted! Supervision, media, treatment, etc. They (mom and son) gave it their best shot. Nothing. ____ Your mother sorry to say is an untrustworthy nutcase. Forgive me. You knew it going in. You felt you had no other options at that time. Your son continues vulnerable. But less so. With you guys at a distance the proximate triggers and his ability to easily and directly hurt you are reduced. In this world we can do only what we can do. You have examined every course of action and no other option has yet presented itself. You are doing a great deal by providing the best treatment for him you can. In a sense these professionals and the lawyer are implementing your parenting directives. You are parenting him: just not hands on. To me this has got to be enough right now. Your son will not permit more. My concern is not so much him. But you--.that you somehow find a way to protect yourself in every way and that you be able to let go. No other mother could do more. That has to be enough. I am sorry this is so hard for us. [/QUOTE]
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