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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 303119" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>First off I am sending a great big long hug. Go ahead and cry on my shoulder, let it all go for a few minutes. I want you to first follow these next few instructions, please. They won't take long, I promise. Not unless you want them too.</p><p></p><p>Put your right hand on your left bicep. Grab hold and keep it there. Now, with your right hand in place, put your left hand on your right bicep. (I mean it. scroll you you can see the next few sentences and then DO THIS. RIGHT NOW, LADY.</p><p></p><p>Keep your hands on your opposite biceps. Now squeeze. You are giving yourself a big hug from me!! Repeat as often as desired. ( If people look at you funny pretend I am there and talk to me. It can be a real hoot!)</p><p></p><p>Your worries about your kids are natural but probably premature. IT is NOT your job to make sure they have a relationship. It is their job. Cut yourself some slack and let them worry about it. IN the end you will have no say anyway. Concentrate on the Serenity Prayer and what you CAN and SHOULD change.</p><p></p><p>Don't get too upset about your son being out of chances. Often the courts give more and more chances to our kids. Many here have had sons the courts drew "hard lines" about the "or else" part of "shape up or else". Then at future court dates the judge just kept threatening with-o doing much for a LONG time.</p><p></p><p>So let yourself focus on the good things and let difficult child focus on the others as much as you can.</p><p></p><p>Sending many hugs and prayers for your situation!</p><p></p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 303119, member: 1233"] First off I am sending a great big long hug. Go ahead and cry on my shoulder, let it all go for a few minutes. I want you to first follow these next few instructions, please. They won't take long, I promise. Not unless you want them too. Put your right hand on your left bicep. Grab hold and keep it there. Now, with your right hand in place, put your left hand on your right bicep. (I mean it. scroll you you can see the next few sentences and then DO THIS. RIGHT NOW, LADY. Keep your hands on your opposite biceps. Now squeeze. You are giving yourself a big hug from me!! Repeat as often as desired. ( If people look at you funny pretend I am there and talk to me. It can be a real hoot!) Your worries about your kids are natural but probably premature. IT is NOT your job to make sure they have a relationship. It is their job. Cut yourself some slack and let them worry about it. IN the end you will have no say anyway. Concentrate on the Serenity Prayer and what you CAN and SHOULD change. Don't get too upset about your son being out of chances. Often the courts give more and more chances to our kids. Many here have had sons the courts drew "hard lines" about the "or else" part of "shape up or else". Then at future court dates the judge just kept threatening with-o doing much for a LONG time. So let yourself focus on the good things and let difficult child focus on the others as much as you can. Sending many hugs and prayers for your situation! Susie [/QUOTE]
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