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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 303582" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>WOW!! He truly has NO respect, doesn't he? I would be out of my mind if my child went so far as to destroy the door to snoop in my room!!</p><p></p><p>It is not very "correct" but I would probably beat the boy half to death with a switch if I found that. Or call the police and report him for vandalism and attempted theft and breaking and entering. Whatever they would take a report for.</p><p></p><p>It really sounds like he NEEDS a year or two at an Residential Treatment Center (RTC). Otherwise the boy is headed for juvy or prison. He is old enough to do time in an adult prison if the offense is severe enough. </p><p></p><p>I can honestly understand that you want your daughter to be civil with difficult child, and vice versa. But right now it is pretty understandable that she wants him to be gone. For a long time. Time may help their relationship. I have a gfgbro who did unspeakable things to me. but with a lot of therapy, and after he went to AA and really lives teh 12 steps, we have a relationship. A pretty good one.</p><p></p><p>Are you going to al anon? It really sounds like you could get a lot of support there. The people in al anon have seen and lived with it all. Literally. They are people just like you. and me. I highly recommend it. Esp to help you with husband. </p><p></p><p>I hope and pray you are safe and soon your home will be a safe haven, not the place where you live with your abuser.</p><p></p><p>If he ever gets physical with him please call 911. And please press domestic violence charges. Until he really faces the legal system and loses some of his freedoms he will not have hit bottom enough to change his ways. </p><p></p><p>Hopefully some maturity will settle in in the next ten years or so.</p><p></p><p>many hugs, and vent away here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 303582, member: 1233"] WOW!! He truly has NO respect, doesn't he? I would be out of my mind if my child went so far as to destroy the door to snoop in my room!! It is not very "correct" but I would probably beat the boy half to death with a switch if I found that. Or call the police and report him for vandalism and attempted theft and breaking and entering. Whatever they would take a report for. It really sounds like he NEEDS a year or two at an Residential Treatment Center (RTC). Otherwise the boy is headed for juvy or prison. He is old enough to do time in an adult prison if the offense is severe enough. I can honestly understand that you want your daughter to be civil with difficult child, and vice versa. But right now it is pretty understandable that she wants him to be gone. For a long time. Time may help their relationship. I have a gfgbro who did unspeakable things to me. but with a lot of therapy, and after he went to AA and really lives teh 12 steps, we have a relationship. A pretty good one. Are you going to al anon? It really sounds like you could get a lot of support there. The people in al anon have seen and lived with it all. Literally. They are people just like you. and me. I highly recommend it. Esp to help you with husband. I hope and pray you are safe and soon your home will be a safe haven, not the place where you live with your abuser. If he ever gets physical with him please call 911. And please press domestic violence charges. Until he really faces the legal system and loses some of his freedoms he will not have hit bottom enough to change his ways. Hopefully some maturity will settle in in the next ten years or so. many hugs, and vent away here. [/QUOTE]
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