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I think the Social Worker believes us, update on CPS taking daughter
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<blockquote data-quote="allhaileris" data-source="post: 520281" data-attributes="member: 5663"><p>husband doesn't listen to her, so I know she feels like her words and actions don't matter and she pulls the negative attention stuff on him. I've been telling him for years he needs to change the way he talks to her. That I do blame him for horribly, because I've been telling him for years (but you know, he doesn't listen). I know she likes to get him in trouble. They'll be discussing something, then she hears me coming and starts freaking out, while husband is on the other side of the room still calmly (or in daddy voice) talking to her. Or when she steals food (like 3 choc donuts that disappeared one night a month ago), she blames her Dad. It's like if she gets me mad at him, it'll take the pressure off of her. Stupid isn't it? He's tall and has a resonant voice. Hell, sometimes when he's "talking" to me I have to tell him to be quieter and calm down and he swears he is calm, but he's just loud (and daughter and I both have sensitive hearing, he has some hearing loss...gosh, I might be onto something there). I do wish I could get out exactly why she feels she is afraid of him, but they won't let me talk to her about "the case". Yet, I'm the only person who she'll tell the truth to, hopefully she'll offer it up herself.</p><p></p><p>But I think this is all a culmination of attention cries. In Dec I was in the hospital for a week and it took many weeks of recovery to feel half way normal, and then I got bronchitis, and then I had to be co-chair of her school wine auction (raises like $70K, I wish the docs would have told me to drop it in Dec but they didn't tell me about the PTSD I'd get and I promised the school in Sept), AND THEN we're moving. I have had to tell her many times over the past few weeks to let me work and then I was busy packing and kept asking her to clean up her room so I could pack it.</p><p></p><p>I just know now, don't ever get sick, injured or volunteer for anything. She acts so much worse the worse I feel.</p><p></p><p>I'm so glad they saw her cut her hair (and stopped it), it shows she is self-abusive.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="allhaileris, post: 520281, member: 5663"] husband doesn't listen to her, so I know she feels like her words and actions don't matter and she pulls the negative attention stuff on him. I've been telling him for years he needs to change the way he talks to her. That I do blame him for horribly, because I've been telling him for years (but you know, he doesn't listen). I know she likes to get him in trouble. They'll be discussing something, then she hears me coming and starts freaking out, while husband is on the other side of the room still calmly (or in daddy voice) talking to her. Or when she steals food (like 3 choc donuts that disappeared one night a month ago), she blames her Dad. It's like if she gets me mad at him, it'll take the pressure off of her. Stupid isn't it? He's tall and has a resonant voice. Hell, sometimes when he's "talking" to me I have to tell him to be quieter and calm down and he swears he is calm, but he's just loud (and daughter and I both have sensitive hearing, he has some hearing loss...gosh, I might be onto something there). I do wish I could get out exactly why she feels she is afraid of him, but they won't let me talk to her about "the case". Yet, I'm the only person who she'll tell the truth to, hopefully she'll offer it up herself. But I think this is all a culmination of attention cries. In Dec I was in the hospital for a week and it took many weeks of recovery to feel half way normal, and then I got bronchitis, and then I had to be co-chair of her school wine auction (raises like $70K, I wish the docs would have told me to drop it in Dec but they didn't tell me about the PTSD I'd get and I promised the school in Sept), AND THEN we're moving. I have had to tell her many times over the past few weeks to let me work and then I was busy packing and kept asking her to clean up her room so I could pack it. I just know now, don't ever get sick, injured or volunteer for anything. She acts so much worse the worse I feel. I'm so glad they saw her cut her hair (and stopped it), it shows she is self-abusive. [/QUOTE]
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