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I thought difficult child was moving into a different realm....
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<blockquote data-quote="donna723" data-source="post: 478149" data-attributes="member: 1883"><p>Do they give them any warning before they just burst in to the room? And are these checks done at the same time every night so the boys know when to expect it?</p><p></p><p>There was a big problem with this at the close security adult prison where I worked but these guys were doing it on purpose to try to embarass or frighten the female staff who were coming around doing the count. Some of them would stand by the door when they knew a female officer would be doing the count, some would yell out lewd comments while doing it. Some would even stand on a chair so she could have a better view or flash the lights in their cell on and off to get her attention. These inmates were written up for "Sexual Misconduct". </p><p></p><p>What happened with your son is an entirely different thing and sounds like it was purely an accident, totally unintentional. They competely over reacted and the fact that he was embarassed by it shows that he certainly didn't intend for anyone to see him! There's a world of difference in someone doing this with the intention to harass or embarass a female staff member and a boy just doing what boys do and then someone walked in at the wrong time!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="donna723, post: 478149, member: 1883"] Do they give them any warning before they just burst in to the room? And are these checks done at the same time every night so the boys know when to expect it? There was a big problem with this at the close security adult prison where I worked but these guys were doing it on purpose to try to embarass or frighten the female staff who were coming around doing the count. Some of them would stand by the door when they knew a female officer would be doing the count, some would yell out lewd comments while doing it. Some would even stand on a chair so she could have a better view or flash the lights in their cell on and off to get her attention. These inmates were written up for "Sexual Misconduct". What happened with your son is an entirely different thing and sounds like it was purely an accident, totally unintentional. They competely over reacted and the fact that he was embarassed by it shows that he certainly didn't intend for anyone to see him! There's a world of difference in someone doing this with the intention to harass or embarass a female staff member and a boy just doing what boys do and then someone walked in at the wrong time! [/QUOTE]
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