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I threw my son out of the house today, and i feel like the worst mother.
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<blockquote data-quote="Hopingforthe best" data-source="post: 441378" data-attributes="member: 12294"><p>Thank you so much mothers for your kind and honest words. I know kicking him out is probably the only way he will grow up and get a grip on his life but i am conflicted and very sad because he is in a unique position. You see, both he and i are permanent residents in America, which means if he is out there and commits a felony he will stay in jail with no bail because of the pending gun charges and if he is found guilty on the gun charges he will be deported. I have tried over and over to emphasize this but it falls on deaf years which makes me think that whatever he is using has messed up his mind. I got him a lawyer that cost me a fortune to try and have the charges dismissed based on the fact that he is a good kid who has never been in trouble before hoping he would keep his nose clean but now i don't know. </p><p></p><p>How reliable are drug test kits? i asked him to take a drug test of marijuana and crystal meth and it came back positive for pot. The reason i did this was because i found small pieces of what looked like broken glass in a bag in his room, didn't think much about it, then started wondering whether it could be meth. When i asked him he said it was pieces of glass but i don't know.... other drugs might be involved too.</p><p></p><p>Being a single mother and dealing with this has been very hard since there is no one to share all this with and i don't feel comfortable confiding in friends. @ judi i will look for aa in our area and join. </p><p></p><p>This evening i called a friend of his and asked him to reach out and find out where he is staying. He said he would pick him up and bring him to his house which he shares with a girlfriend, so iam relieved that i know where he is. The irony of this is two years ago this friend was kicked out of his home too and i took him in for a few months until he resolved issues with his parents', now he seems to be doing okay so that gives me hope. Thanks for listening moms.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hopingforthe best, post: 441378, member: 12294"] Thank you so much mothers for your kind and honest words. I know kicking him out is probably the only way he will grow up and get a grip on his life but i am conflicted and very sad because he is in a unique position. You see, both he and i are permanent residents in America, which means if he is out there and commits a felony he will stay in jail with no bail because of the pending gun charges and if he is found guilty on the gun charges he will be deported. I have tried over and over to emphasize this but it falls on deaf years which makes me think that whatever he is using has messed up his mind. I got him a lawyer that cost me a fortune to try and have the charges dismissed based on the fact that he is a good kid who has never been in trouble before hoping he would keep his nose clean but now i don't know. How reliable are drug test kits? i asked him to take a drug test of marijuana and crystal meth and it came back positive for pot. The reason i did this was because i found small pieces of what looked like broken glass in a bag in his room, didn't think much about it, then started wondering whether it could be meth. When i asked him he said it was pieces of glass but i don't know.... other drugs might be involved too. Being a single mother and dealing with this has been very hard since there is no one to share all this with and i don't feel comfortable confiding in friends. @ judi i will look for aa in our area and join. This evening i called a friend of his and asked him to reach out and find out where he is staying. He said he would pick him up and bring him to his house which he shares with a girlfriend, so iam relieved that i know where he is. The irony of this is two years ago this friend was kicked out of his home too and i took him in for a few months until he resolved issues with his parents', now he seems to be doing okay so that gives me hope. Thanks for listening moms. [/QUOTE]
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