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I try to take a stand...Tony goes wishy washy!
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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 414264" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>1. I wouldn't have gone shopping for her, regardless whether or not she could afford maternity clothes. I have never, not once, bought either girl something maternity. You got preggers......deal. There are sweat pants and baggy tshirts for those who can't afford to go out and buy stuff. omg Tony was being nice but Mandy especially has her entitlement attitude up too high to begin with. I mean geez......Nichole was just a teen the 1st time......and I still didn't buy her maternity clothes. Left that to boyfriend, he's the one her did the deed, not me. lol</p><p></p><p>I'd have a sit down with Tony and explain that while you love his caring and generous side he needs to keep it in check while you guys are trying to reclaim your house. Otherwise..........You'll be long since retired and the kids will all still be there probably adding in great grandkids on top of it. These kids need to learn to stand on their own, you and Tony won't be around forever. And both of you have more than earned some peace and time to just enjoy the grandkids.</p><p></p><p>My sis is facing this. She has her 2 grown kids living with her. (eldest is in prison) With those 2 grown kids she has youngest son's present girlfriend and their 2 babies, ex girlfriend and those 2 toddlers, and another 2 kids by him also live there don't ask where mom is as I think she rarely sees them. Daughter of course lives there with her current boyfriend........and her 2 kids. And if that isn't enough.........ex girlfriend of eldest son (one in prison) lives there with her 3 kids, and only one is sis's grandchild. And it's a teeny weeny 3 bedroom house. My neice works 2/3 jobs to pay the bills. My nephew contributes some to food. Sis is not working.......for room and board she babysits for all the grandkids. All the adults are working full time min wage jobs.......but God forbid nephew go out and get his own place, or anyone else. It's too cushy there. ugh</p><p></p><p>Sis told me she dreads going home although she loves them all. I said Gee, I wonder why? omg difficult child drama out the wazoo and they're all literally climbing over each other. ugh</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 414264, member: 84"] 1. I wouldn't have gone shopping for her, regardless whether or not she could afford maternity clothes. I have never, not once, bought either girl something maternity. You got preggers......deal. There are sweat pants and baggy tshirts for those who can't afford to go out and buy stuff. omg Tony was being nice but Mandy especially has her entitlement attitude up too high to begin with. I mean geez......Nichole was just a teen the 1st time......and I still didn't buy her maternity clothes. Left that to boyfriend, he's the one her did the deed, not me. lol I'd have a sit down with Tony and explain that while you love his caring and generous side he needs to keep it in check while you guys are trying to reclaim your house. Otherwise..........You'll be long since retired and the kids will all still be there probably adding in great grandkids on top of it. These kids need to learn to stand on their own, you and Tony won't be around forever. And both of you have more than earned some peace and time to just enjoy the grandkids. My sis is facing this. She has her 2 grown kids living with her. (eldest is in prison) With those 2 grown kids she has youngest son's present girlfriend and their 2 babies, ex girlfriend and those 2 toddlers, and another 2 kids by him also live there don't ask where mom is as I think she rarely sees them. Daughter of course lives there with her current boyfriend........and her 2 kids. And if that isn't enough.........ex girlfriend of eldest son (one in prison) lives there with her 3 kids, and only one is sis's grandchild. And it's a teeny weeny 3 bedroom house. My neice works 2/3 jobs to pay the bills. My nephew contributes some to food. Sis is not working.......for room and board she babysits for all the grandkids. All the adults are working full time min wage jobs.......but God forbid nephew go out and get his own place, or anyone else. It's too cushy there. ugh Sis told me she dreads going home although she loves them all. I said Gee, I wonder why? omg difficult child drama out the wazoo and they're all literally climbing over each other. ugh [/QUOTE]
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