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I try to take a stand...Tony goes wishy washy!
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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 414417" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>Regarding Tony, I think it is very easy when you live in an abnormal environment to begin to think it is normal and then resent the heck out of the daily demands of living. You are not well and yet you are trying to pretend you are. Tony is exhausted from the stress of his job and he is not longer thirty and looking forward to the future. It's one heck of a lifestyle and even if he were younger and you were healthier...it's <strong>too </strong>much. Believe me, I do understand.</p><p> </p><p>I think it's time for you to make a list of changes that you need. Make a list (with or without Tony's input) of what he needs. As a CD family member I think you've made it obvious. You need Cory/Mandy out of there and the room cleaned up. You have a genuine hope that Billy will be out of there soon. Keyana is too close to your heart to eliminate her...obviously. Tony needs to come home from work and not feel he is scheduled for more responsibility than he can handle right now.</p><p> </p><p>With fewer people in the house you should be able to hire someone to come in and clean up the house a day or two each week for a few hours. Without the expense of having grown kids around you should be able to find and hire a teenager to help with Keyana a few hours a week...or on an as needed basis. You and Tony have many years together and both of you need a more peaceful environment and time to chill together and separately. Find time together to actually discuss what each of you need. I think you can do it. Hugs. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 414417, member: 35"] Regarding Tony, I think it is very easy when you live in an abnormal environment to begin to think it is normal and then resent the heck out of the daily demands of living. You are not well and yet you are trying to pretend you are. Tony is exhausted from the stress of his job and he is not longer thirty and looking forward to the future. It's one heck of a lifestyle and even if he were younger and you were healthier...it's [B]too [/B]much. Believe me, I do understand. I think it's time for you to make a list of changes that you need. Make a list (with or without Tony's input) of what he needs. As a CD family member I think you've made it obvious. You need Cory/Mandy out of there and the room cleaned up. You have a genuine hope that Billy will be out of there soon. Keyana is too close to your heart to eliminate her...obviously. Tony needs to come home from work and not feel he is scheduled for more responsibility than he can handle right now. With fewer people in the house you should be able to hire someone to come in and clean up the house a day or two each week for a few hours. Without the expense of having grown kids around you should be able to find and hire a teenager to help with Keyana a few hours a week...or on an as needed basis. You and Tony have many years together and both of you need a more peaceful environment and time to chill together and separately. Find time together to actually discuss what each of you need. I think you can do it. Hugs. DDD [/QUOTE]
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