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I was a monster this morning. I am so ashamed...
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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 480510" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>It is ok for them to know we make mistakes and that we are human. He may exploit it for a while since he is not likly to understand your perception or to value how much you need him to accept your apology. It is probably going to be about how he feels about it. That is just part of being difficult child. </p><p></p><p>I feel terrible too when I make choices like that, but I talk about it and forgive myself. It IS hard to do this. Unlike what my 92 yr old neighbor thinks, I am not a saint and none of us are. If you didn't realize that you had a "bad mommy moment" as I call them, THEN there would be a problem. </p><p></p><p>When I get in places like this, I write it down and sort though and make a plan for myself about how i am going to get thru these same situaitons. For me it is a morning pattern. (among many, but that is my worst time dealing with it for some reason). I am really trying to establish a pattern including self talk to remember medications are not kicked in well at that time and it is a huge transition time.</p><p></p><p>Just sharing our story in case it sparks any ideas. In any event, you are not alone, and you are a wonderful mom.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 480510, member: 12886"] It is ok for them to know we make mistakes and that we are human. He may exploit it for a while since he is not likly to understand your perception or to value how much you need him to accept your apology. It is probably going to be about how he feels about it. That is just part of being difficult child. I feel terrible too when I make choices like that, but I talk about it and forgive myself. It IS hard to do this. Unlike what my 92 yr old neighbor thinks, I am not a saint and none of us are. If you didn't realize that you had a "bad mommy moment" as I call them, THEN there would be a problem. When I get in places like this, I write it down and sort though and make a plan for myself about how i am going to get thru these same situaitons. For me it is a morning pattern. (among many, but that is my worst time dealing with it for some reason). I am really trying to establish a pattern including self talk to remember medications are not kicked in well at that time and it is a huge transition time. Just sharing our story in case it sparks any ideas. In any event, you are not alone, and you are a wonderful mom. [/QUOTE]
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