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<blockquote data-quote="helpme" data-source="post: 356554" data-attributes="member: 8202"><p>I wasn't expecting difficult child's phone call to go the way it went.</p><p>I had responses already in my head, but didn't have to use a</p><p>single one of them.</p><p></p><p>He called to see what I was doing for his birthday, since his father</p><p>couldn't do anything for him, he thought I would, since his dad just</p><p>dropped 1k on a lawyer (of the 5k). </p><p><span style="color: RoyalBlue"> My reply-I said I think he did do something for your birthday.</span></p><p><span style="color: RoyalBlue"></span></p><p>I made very few financial deals with difficult child, and they ended on his</p><p>18th birthday and the Christmas following it (money from my parents</p><p>and gparents-who now ended the "aid" as well, due to the kids</p><p>not calling to thank them). </p><p><span style="color: RoyalBlue">You were warned to call and say thank you or the $ would cease</span></p><p></p><p>I did call mom.</p><p><span style="color: RoyalBlue">When?</span></p><p></p><p>A few months back.</p><p><span style="color: RoyalBlue">A few years ago a few months back you did.</span></p><p><span style="color: RoyalBlue"></span></p><p>after the silence-<span style="color: RoyalBlue">Are you was working?</span></p><p>No.</p><p>innocently-<span style="color: RoyalBlue">So you are using people for a place to live?</span></p><p></p><p>No how are you doing, no how is my sister, no cares, and general</p><p>mass confusion on the vehicle and place he was calling from. </p><p></p><p>What else?</p><p></p><p>Stated that he now had the mother and daughter who alleged</p><p>about him "drugging" the daughter and "talking smack to the mom"</p><p>blocked (from FB) and out of his life.</p><p></p><p>Admitted talking smack to mom, but said he did nothing to the girl</p><p>(in regards to her being drugged and raped)</p><p></p><p>Oh and as far as the mothers day ordeal (me, STBX, and the two</p><p>girls- im dreading that by the way-watch for a long post after a long mom's</p><p>day) he didn't know about it all, </p><p></p><p>since I was eluding that I wasn't sure if I had to pay for that whole</p><p>ordeal either. I could tell he wasn't happy to hear about that at all.</p><p></p><p>He acted offended that he wasn't invited to participate,</p><p></p><p>Admitted he knew his father wasn't working, didn't have car, and</p><p>was not paying child support. <span style="color: RoyalBlue">I openly stated that his father is</span></p><p><span style="color: RoyalBlue">doing a lot more for difficult child than for youngest.</span> He agreed.</p><p></p><p>stated he still wasn't getting along with the middle one,</p><p><span style="color: RoyalBlue">Really, she's acting as if you are doing great</span></p><p><span style="color: RoyalBlue"></span></p><p>stated he doesn't talk to his dad much</p><p><span style="color: RoyalBlue">Really, he acts like he talks to you daily</span></p><p></p><p>stated that he wasn't really living at gparents</p><p><span style="color: RoyalBlue">where then?</span></p><p><span style="color: Black">oh with a couple of friends but they just got kicked out</span></p><p></p><p>that he was going to community college in august like his</p><p>sister and that federal aid was complete </p><p><span style="color: RoyalBlue">There is no financial assistance to felonist.</span></p><p><span style="color: RoyalBlue"></span></p><p>that he was leaving for a birthday weekend trip after we got off the</p><p>phone and thought I'd help </p><p><span style="color: RoyalBlue">I'm not paying for partying or tattoos.</span></p><p></p><p>By the time we got off of</p><p>the phone, he said he'd call me later in the weekend </p><p><span style="color: RoyalBlue">(my reply in my head: doubtful)</span></p><p></p><p>Believe it or not, I'm happy it went so well. </p><p>Sad it is the way it is though.</p><p>He really could have been a great kid with a great future.</p><p></p><p>I asked littlest if she wanted to celebrate his birthday (her and I)</p><p>she said she wanted to go to a sleepover. I said do you want</p><p>to do anything for him, or do you think I should, she said "nope"</p><p></p><p>Okay, I'll go out then and celebrate his birthday alone. And I'm</p><p>happy about it <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="helpme, post: 356554, member: 8202"] I wasn't expecting difficult child's phone call to go the way it went. I had responses already in my head, but didn't have to use a single one of them. He called to see what I was doing for his birthday, since his father couldn't do anything for him, he thought I would, since his dad just dropped 1k on a lawyer (of the 5k). [COLOR=RoyalBlue] My reply-I said I think he did do something for your birthday. [/COLOR] I made very few financial deals with difficult child, and they ended on his 18th birthday and the Christmas following it (money from my parents and gparents-who now ended the "aid" as well, due to the kids not calling to thank them). [COLOR=RoyalBlue]You were warned to call and say thank you or the $ would cease[/COLOR] I did call mom. [COLOR=RoyalBlue]When?[/COLOR] A few months back. [COLOR=RoyalBlue]A few years ago a few months back you did. [/COLOR] after the silence-[COLOR=RoyalBlue]Are you was working?[/COLOR] No. innocently-[COLOR=RoyalBlue]So you are using people for a place to live?[/COLOR] No how are you doing, no how is my sister, no cares, and general mass confusion on the vehicle and place he was calling from. What else? Stated that he now had the mother and daughter who alleged about him "drugging" the daughter and "talking smack to the mom" blocked (from FB) and out of his life. Admitted talking smack to mom, but said he did nothing to the girl (in regards to her being drugged and raped) Oh and as far as the mothers day ordeal (me, STBX, and the two girls- im dreading that by the way-watch for a long post after a long mom's day) he didn't know about it all, since I was eluding that I wasn't sure if I had to pay for that whole ordeal either. I could tell he wasn't happy to hear about that at all. He acted offended that he wasn't invited to participate, Admitted he knew his father wasn't working, didn't have car, and was not paying child support. [COLOR=RoyalBlue]I openly stated that his father is doing a lot more for difficult child than for youngest.[/COLOR] He agreed. stated he still wasn't getting along with the middle one, [COLOR=RoyalBlue]Really, she's acting as if you are doing great [/COLOR] stated he doesn't talk to his dad much [COLOR=RoyalBlue]Really, he acts like he talks to you daily[/COLOR] stated that he wasn't really living at gparents [COLOR=RoyalBlue]where then?[/COLOR] [COLOR=Black]oh with a couple of friends but they just got kicked out[/COLOR] that he was going to community college in august like his sister and that federal aid was complete [COLOR=RoyalBlue]There is no financial assistance to felonist. [/COLOR] that he was leaving for a birthday weekend trip after we got off the phone and thought I'd help [COLOR=RoyalBlue]I'm not paying for partying or tattoos.[/COLOR] By the time we got off of the phone, he said he'd call me later in the weekend [COLOR=RoyalBlue](my reply in my head: doubtful)[/COLOR] Believe it or not, I'm happy it went so well. Sad it is the way it is though. He really could have been a great kid with a great future. I asked littlest if she wanted to celebrate his birthday (her and I) she said she wanted to go to a sleepover. I said do you want to do anything for him, or do you think I should, she said "nope" Okay, I'll go out then and celebrate his birthday alone. And I'm happy about it :) [/QUOTE]
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