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I went to the therapist yesterday. My plan for difficult child and work situation:
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<blockquote data-quote="dashcat" data-source="post: 553558" data-attributes="member: 9175"><p>Thanks, all. I am well rested and as prepared as I am going to be. And, yes, I will work hard to keep the tears in check. CJane, She texted Mr. Ostrich the day I wouldn't let her use my car to job hunt. In the text she said "I am so done with mom. I can't live here anymore". He, being an Ostrich, ignored the text. He claims that he told her she cannot come back because she left her room in the state of a toxic waste dump when she left to live with boyfriend. At first I doubted this (very un-Ostrich like), but I've been thinking lately that it just might be true. Whether or not he would allow her to come back is anyone's guess. On one hand, he is very weak when it comes to saying "no". On the other hand, he is VERY selfish with his time and space. I think he'll do whatever he can to prevent her moving back.</p><p></p><p>He lives 1.5 blocks from us and, since she's been living here (April), he has never ONCE invited her to spend time with him one-on-one. Not even for a pizza. He did take her to the browns game yesterday (he has season tickets with his brothers and there was an extra ticket) and his girlfriend invites her to join them for dinner/bonfires whens he has her kids. difficult child also invites herself to her dads to watch TV (I don't have cable) and to the GFs for dinners, but he has not initiated spending any time with her alone. I find this very sad.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dashcat, post: 553558, member: 9175"] Thanks, all. I am well rested and as prepared as I am going to be. And, yes, I will work hard to keep the tears in check. CJane, She texted Mr. Ostrich the day I wouldn't let her use my car to job hunt. In the text she said "I am so done with mom. I can't live here anymore". He, being an Ostrich, ignored the text. He claims that he told her she cannot come back because she left her room in the state of a toxic waste dump when she left to live with boyfriend. At first I doubted this (very un-Ostrich like), but I've been thinking lately that it just might be true. Whether or not he would allow her to come back is anyone's guess. On one hand, he is very weak when it comes to saying "no". On the other hand, he is VERY selfish with his time and space. I think he'll do whatever he can to prevent her moving back. He lives 1.5 blocks from us and, since she's been living here (April), he has never ONCE invited her to spend time with him one-on-one. Not even for a pizza. He did take her to the browns game yesterday (he has season tickets with his brothers and there was an extra ticket) and his girlfriend invites her to join them for dinner/bonfires whens he has her kids. difficult child also invites herself to her dads to watch TV (I don't have cable) and to the GFs for dinners, but he has not initiated spending any time with her alone. I find this very sad. [/QUOTE]
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