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I would lose my mind if I had this many kids
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<blockquote data-quote="Estherfromjerusalem" data-source="post: 178865" data-attributes="member: 77"><p>At no number do you just squat and out comes baby! I have had eight, and the births do not necessarily become easier, I can tell you from experience. Every labor is painful and long and difficult. It doesn't say there in the article that they are asking for handouts. People do all sorts of things to survive, maybe all the children when they reach the age of 10 or 11 or 12 do odd jobs, do babysitting, wash cars, all sorts of things, in order to help the parents and to help the family. In my opinion, that is very educational. Maybe their children just aren't used to having what other people think can't be done without. Maybe their children don't ask for things and know that they can't have everything. Obviously the clothes get handed down, and probably shoes too.</p><p></p><p>I have five married children, and on Saturday night one of my daughters-in-law had a baby girl, so now I have nineteen grandchildren. I cannot tell you how blessed I feel. I never asked for handouts. I was pregnant and carried on working, including doing extra jobs late at night at home (proofreading etc.) in order to pad out our income. We have never been able to make ends meet and have never been able to really spoil ourselves. We never ever have gone away for a holiday to a hotel. Compared to some, you would say our lives are quite spartan. So be it. Everyone chooses what he/she wants. I have chosen children (my difficult child is the youngest), and I am not sorry. I have my reasons for wanting to have a large family. Luckily, I live in an environment and in a country where very large families are one of the accepted norms.</p><p></p><p>I loved that picture of the family. I counted -- five children were not in the photo!</p><p></p><p>If I had been able to have more children, I would have.</p><p></p><p>Just my two cents worth.</p><p></p><p>Love, Esther</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Estherfromjerusalem, post: 178865, member: 77"] At no number do you just squat and out comes baby! I have had eight, and the births do not necessarily become easier, I can tell you from experience. Every labor is painful and long and difficult. It doesn't say there in the article that they are asking for handouts. People do all sorts of things to survive, maybe all the children when they reach the age of 10 or 11 or 12 do odd jobs, do babysitting, wash cars, all sorts of things, in order to help the parents and to help the family. In my opinion, that is very educational. Maybe their children just aren't used to having what other people think can't be done without. Maybe their children don't ask for things and know that they can't have everything. Obviously the clothes get handed down, and probably shoes too. I have five married children, and on Saturday night one of my daughters-in-law had a baby girl, so now I have nineteen grandchildren. I cannot tell you how blessed I feel. I never asked for handouts. I was pregnant and carried on working, including doing extra jobs late at night at home (proofreading etc.) in order to pad out our income. We have never been able to make ends meet and have never been able to really spoil ourselves. We never ever have gone away for a holiday to a hotel. Compared to some, you would say our lives are quite spartan. So be it. Everyone chooses what he/she wants. I have chosen children (my difficult child is the youngest), and I am not sorry. I have my reasons for wanting to have a large family. Luckily, I live in an environment and in a country where very large families are one of the accepted norms. I loved that picture of the family. I counted -- five children were not in the photo! If I had been able to have more children, I would have. Just my two cents worth. Love, Esther [/QUOTE]
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