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I'd like to say once again....I hate
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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 25996" data-attributes="member: 393"><p>Thanks ladies...Janna I knew you'd understand. Foster mum & I have a good working relationship & we spent 45 minutes on the phone this morning working out a plan for young "master wm". It will also be brought up at his next staffing.</p><p></p><p>Pamela, I'm in no way detaching from the child - wm's given choices to behave appropriately (he knows & is redirected constantly). I inform wm very firmly that I would like him to "redo" that & that I love him. I let him know that the choice he's made makes it hard for me to be around him safely.</p><p></p><p>While wm has severe Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), ultimately, he needs to work his treatment plan - needs to be a part of the team who's working so hard on his behalf. </p><p></p><p>I've taken to using Sue's little comment - show me the money, wm. Your actions/choices are telling me differently than your mouth.</p><p></p><p>It's been decided that there will be no visit this coming weekend (kt's first weekend home from Residential Treatment Center (RTC)). Maybe, just maybe, letting wm stew in his juices will help. </p><p></p><p>The entire team is in agreement on this decision. Will it work? Probably not at this point - just haven't a clue what else to try until next therapist appointment.</p><p></p><p>Thanks again for listening.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 25996, member: 393"] Thanks ladies...Janna I knew you'd understand. Foster mum & I have a good working relationship & we spent 45 minutes on the phone this morning working out a plan for young "master wm". It will also be brought up at his next staffing. Pamela, I'm in no way detaching from the child - wm's given choices to behave appropriately (he knows & is redirected constantly). I inform wm very firmly that I would like him to "redo" that & that I love him. I let him know that the choice he's made makes it hard for me to be around him safely. While wm has severe Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), ultimately, he needs to work his treatment plan - needs to be a part of the team who's working so hard on his behalf. I've taken to using Sue's little comment - show me the money, wm. Your actions/choices are telling me differently than your mouth. It's been decided that there will be no visit this coming weekend (kt's first weekend home from Residential Treatment Center (RTC)). Maybe, just maybe, letting wm stew in his juices will help. The entire team is in agreement on this decision. Will it work? Probably not at this point - just haven't a clue what else to try until next therapist appointment. Thanks again for listening. [/QUOTE]
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