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IEE- am I being unreasonable?
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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 307808" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Shari, you snuck in on me. My son is in 9th grade now so in this case, we know that he did not follow thru with trying to hurt that boy in 5th grade. That's the kind of stuff in her report that bugs me the most- she read someething from so long ago that said difficult child threaterned someone and documented that difficult child had a serious aggressive incident with another child- not exactly the same to me. Then, goes on to say that this is two times this has happened now- no, he has not pulled a knife on someone twice. I understand that she didn't know details, but she assumed the worst (she could have called and asked me about it) and documented what she assumed like it was factual. Even if I get something in difficult child's file saying this is not true, which one do you think people in future sd's will believe?</p><p></p><p>I'll read the whole report carefully after I wake up. Maybe I'll get lucky and it will have been revised enough to only have a couple of things like that left in it. If that's the case, maybe I can get her to change or clarify them with the agreement to drop the IEE. My concern is that the IEE is at public expense but must be done by someone "at least as qualified"- ok, but will they pay for someone MORE qualified? If I can'typical teen get someone more qualified, I'm not so sure I'd get any different results.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 307808, member: 3699"] Shari, you snuck in on me. My son is in 9th grade now so in this case, we know that he did not follow thru with trying to hurt that boy in 5th grade. That's the kind of stuff in her report that bugs me the most- she read someething from so long ago that said difficult child threaterned someone and documented that difficult child had a serious aggressive incident with another child- not exactly the same to me. Then, goes on to say that this is two times this has happened now- no, he has not pulled a knife on someone twice. I understand that she didn't know details, but she assumed the worst (she could have called and asked me about it) and documented what she assumed like it was factual. Even if I get something in difficult child's file saying this is not true, which one do you think people in future sd's will believe? I'll read the whole report carefully after I wake up. Maybe I'll get lucky and it will have been revised enough to only have a couple of things like that left in it. If that's the case, maybe I can get her to change or clarify them with the agreement to drop the IEE. My concern is that the IEE is at public expense but must be done by someone "at least as qualified"- ok, but will they pay for someone MORE qualified? If I can'typical teen get someone more qualified, I'm not so sure I'd get any different results. [/QUOTE]
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