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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 242285" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>HUGE HUGS Kiddo - </p><p> </p><p>Remember this........</p><p> </p><p>When we make decisions for our children and wonder "Did I make the right decision?" ask yourself seriously "Have I ever made a decision for my child that was <u><strong><em>purposely</em></strong></u> WRONG, BAD or HARMFUL?" If you answered NO, then know in your mind that you did what you thought was best at the time based on what you knew about the situation. </p><p> </p><p>If you DO purposely make wrong, bad or harmful decisions and you are aware that you are doing this, then you need to realize that your decisions are consistantly harmful and tell a professional about it. </p><p> </p><p>Leave SHOULD have - in a garbage bag and throw it away. You do what you do when you do it because you love your son, and want the best for him. That alone should allow you to sleep better at night. </p><p> </p><p>Don't ever say "I should have"......because it makes you sound like you did purposely make bad choices. = Think about it. </p><p> </p><p>YOU did what you did at the time you did it because......you FELT it was the right choice NOT becuase you sat there and said WEll I could do this but I should do that - aw heck I'm going to do what's the absolute worst and worry about it later. See? </p><p> </p><p>Hugs.......take care of you. HUG my nephew for me. I'm still here if he needs a cheer up card......will be glad to send it to him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 242285, member: 4964"] HUGE HUGS Kiddo - Remember this........ When we make decisions for our children and wonder "Did I make the right decision?" ask yourself seriously "Have I ever made a decision for my child that was [U][B][I]purposely[/I][/B][/U] WRONG, BAD or HARMFUL?" If you answered NO, then know in your mind that you did what you thought was best at the time based on what you knew about the situation. If you DO purposely make wrong, bad or harmful decisions and you are aware that you are doing this, then you need to realize that your decisions are consistantly harmful and tell a professional about it. Leave SHOULD have - in a garbage bag and throw it away. You do what you do when you do it because you love your son, and want the best for him. That alone should allow you to sleep better at night. Don't ever say "I should have"......because it makes you sound like you did purposely make bad choices. = Think about it. YOU did what you did at the time you did it because......you FELT it was the right choice NOT becuase you sat there and said WEll I could do this but I should do that - aw heck I'm going to do what's the absolute worst and worry about it later. See? Hugs.......take care of you. HUG my nephew for me. I'm still here if he needs a cheer up card......will be glad to send it to him. [/QUOTE]
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