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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 242334" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Sending LOTS of gentle and supportive hugs. I will pm contact info just in case you don't have mine.</p><p></p><p>Please remember that I have been through a lot of this - child who threatened my life, police and judges, long term hospitals, long drives to meet with docs/tdocs/etc.... I understand a lot of your fears and the stress you are under. Many others here also do. </p><p></p><p>Please reach out if you need me, or to someone else if that is more comfortable.</p><p></p><p>Also, ALWAYS keep in mind that you NEVER sat down and said, "How can I mess up my kid the most today?" When you make decisions they are ALWAYS with his interests in mind. I have known you a long time here, and even with all the crackpots from the justice system (PO, GAL, judge, etc...) you have NEVER wavered from pushing for what you know and feel is best for your son.</p><p></p><p>You are a strong woman, and a very capable one. I know you don't feel like that, you feel you have messed everything up or your son wouldn't have these problems. But that simply is NOT TRUE. I can't give you a reason for why your son has the problems, no one can. BUT he is where he is now, and not in some permanent institution or medicated until he is drooling and pliable because you fight for what he needs ALL the time.</p><p></p><p>More hugs and support,</p><p></p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 242334, member: 1233"] Sending LOTS of gentle and supportive hugs. I will pm contact info just in case you don't have mine. Please remember that I have been through a lot of this - child who threatened my life, police and judges, long term hospitals, long drives to meet with docs/tdocs/etc.... I understand a lot of your fears and the stress you are under. Many others here also do. Please reach out if you need me, or to someone else if that is more comfortable. Also, ALWAYS keep in mind that you NEVER sat down and said, "How can I mess up my kid the most today?" When you make decisions they are ALWAYS with his interests in mind. I have known you a long time here, and even with all the crackpots from the justice system (PO, GAL, judge, etc...) you have NEVER wavered from pushing for what you know and feel is best for your son. You are a strong woman, and a very capable one. I know you don't feel like that, you feel you have messed everything up or your son wouldn't have these problems. But that simply is NOT TRUE. I can't give you a reason for why your son has the problems, no one can. BUT he is where he is now, and not in some permanent institution or medicated until he is drooling and pliable because you fight for what he needs ALL the time. More hugs and support, Susie [/QUOTE]
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