Chickpea, if you have state approved guardianship of your grandchild, doesn’t your daughter have to show that she is capable of caring for him before she can get him back? For example, in some states she would have to complete a plan— job with enough money to support child, place to live, drug free, etc. I had to fill out those guardianship papers every year and I made sure to put down every detail such as birth mother has made no effort to contact the child, is on drugs, jobless, no support, etc. And I always stated that we wanted to adopt him in the future.
I can’t imagine it would be that easy for her to just waltz back into his life and regain custody without proving herself fit first and how likely is that with her admitted drug use?
In any event, I wish you the very best in whatever decision you make regarding your grandchild.
