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"If you don't care, why should I?" Is this TOO tough?
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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 447299" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Hmm.</p><p></p><p>I'm not sure what the evaluation would be for? You don't have to necessarily have a mental issue to do drugs. Or was this a concern before the drugs?</p><p></p><p>An evaluation isn't going to stop him from using.</p><p></p><p>You care, and he knows you care. But you made the rules, if you don't follow through your credibility with him drops to zero. I would simply state, you broke x y z rules, so now a b c is going to happen or you leave and make your own way. </p><p></p><p>Although after the partying bringing friends in when I wasn't there, I'd skip the evaluation and give him a move out date. But I'm mean, my kids would tell you that. Today, they thank me for being so mean. Took some growing up for them to get to that point, though. </p><p></p><p>An al anon meeting would be a good idea. They can help tons with the drug issues and behaviors.</p><p></p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 447299, member: 84"] Hmm. I'm not sure what the evaluation would be for? You don't have to necessarily have a mental issue to do drugs. Or was this a concern before the drugs? An evaluation isn't going to stop him from using. You care, and he knows you care. But you made the rules, if you don't follow through your credibility with him drops to zero. I would simply state, you broke x y z rules, so now a b c is going to happen or you leave and make your own way. Although after the partying bringing friends in when I wasn't there, I'd skip the evaluation and give him a move out date. But I'm mean, my kids would tell you that. Today, they thank me for being so mean. Took some growing up for them to get to that point, though. An al anon meeting would be a good idea. They can help tons with the drug issues and behaviors. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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