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<blockquote data-quote="bran155" data-source="post: 241600"><p>Jog,</p><p></p><p>Do you have special powers? Did you come into my house last night while I was sleeping and steal my brain? Because you have just described something that I could have typed verbatim about my life!!! Our daughters just might be twins!!! </p><p></p><p>I so agree. I wish I was as clueless as my mother was about what I was doing. One time she came home from work, I was about 16, she walked in and said "What is that funny smell, are you burning candles?". Uh, NO, I was smoking pot!!! There were 2 beers on the coffee table and a joint burning in the ashtray, she just didn't even see it!! My boyfriend was in my closet. I had no pants on and his clothes were strewn about the room. Never did she ask why I wasn't dressed, nor did she ask whose clothes they were as she was handing them to me and telling me to clean up!! DUH!!!!!!</p><p></p><p>Why, oh why can't I be that stupid???? Can we buy blinders somewhere? Not only are we much more intuitive about our difficult children behaviors but it seems that your daughter might be a lot like mine in that she does not feel the need to hide things. She even tells me things that are so incredibly inappropriate. Things about her sex life and drug use, she has even told me about a few robberies that she committed. She once said "Mom, I'll be back, I am going to CVS to steal some make up." As if I was to say, okay see you when you get back - have fun honey!!!!! I think she does this as a result of her Borderline (BPD), she lacks common social cues and I just don't think she realizes that these things are not things you share with your MOTHER!!!</p><p></p><p>If you find the answer, please let me know!!!! Because I want so much to be ignorant as well!!!</p><p></p><p>Shawna <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bran155, post: 241600"] Jog, Do you have special powers? Did you come into my house last night while I was sleeping and steal my brain? Because you have just described something that I could have typed verbatim about my life!!! Our daughters just might be twins!!! I so agree. I wish I was as clueless as my mother was about what I was doing. One time she came home from work, I was about 16, she walked in and said "What is that funny smell, are you burning candles?". Uh, NO, I was smoking pot!!! There were 2 beers on the coffee table and a joint burning in the ashtray, she just didn't even see it!! My boyfriend was in my closet. I had no pants on and his clothes were strewn about the room. Never did she ask why I wasn't dressed, nor did she ask whose clothes they were as she was handing them to me and telling me to clean up!! DUH!!!!!! Why, oh why can't I be that stupid???? Can we buy blinders somewhere? Not only are we much more intuitive about our difficult children behaviors but it seems that your daughter might be a lot like mine in that she does not feel the need to hide things. She even tells me things that are so incredibly inappropriate. Things about her sex life and drug use, she has even told me about a few robberies that she committed. She once said "Mom, I'll be back, I am going to CVS to steal some make up." As if I was to say, okay see you when you get back - have fun honey!!!!! I think she does this as a result of her Borderline (BPD), she lacks common social cues and I just don't think she realizes that these things are not things you share with your MOTHER!!! If you find the answer, please let me know!!!! Because I want so much to be ignorant as well!!! Shawna :) [/QUOTE]
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