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I'm a son who became criminal and wants to reconnect with parents. I need your help.
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<blockquote data-quote="ksm" data-source="post: 707466" data-attributes="member: 12511"><p>First of all...I assume that your business is legal for where you live. Second, are you still under and probation restrictions? Third, are their cultural situations that makes them connecting with you more difficult?</p><p></p><p>You are no longer being supported or financed bu them, right? Do they expect you to repay any financial help from the past? Are their other family members that you can reach out to, to help reconnect?</p><p></p><p>If you were my son, I would need to see that you are on the right path. Not perfect, but becoming a responsible adult. Then maybe you could try to acknowledge your mistakes and not make excuses for them, take responsibility, own them, feel regret over what you did, just not being sorry about how it affected you.</p><p></p><p>Maybe every couple of months, write them a letter and let them know you would like some type of contact and work towards reconciliation, on what ever terms they are comfortable with.</p><p></p><p>Don't make demands. Then just keep working on your self...becoming emotionally healthy and spiritually healthy. If you didn't grow up in a home where that was important, try some organizations and see if you can find a group that you fit in. </p><p></p><p>I am proud of you!</p><p></p><p>Ksm</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ksm, post: 707466, member: 12511"] First of all...I assume that your business is legal for where you live. Second, are you still under and probation restrictions? Third, are their cultural situations that makes them connecting with you more difficult? You are no longer being supported or financed bu them, right? Do they expect you to repay any financial help from the past? Are their other family members that you can reach out to, to help reconnect? If you were my son, I would need to see that you are on the right path. Not perfect, but becoming a responsible adult. Then maybe you could try to acknowledge your mistakes and not make excuses for them, take responsibility, own them, feel regret over what you did, just not being sorry about how it affected you. Maybe every couple of months, write them a letter and let them know you would like some type of contact and work towards reconciliation, on what ever terms they are comfortable with. Don't make demands. Then just keep working on your self...becoming emotionally healthy and spiritually healthy. If you didn't grow up in a home where that was important, try some organizations and see if you can find a group that you fit in. I am proud of you! Ksm [/QUOTE]
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