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I'm angry that women tend to get the custody even when they are not being their best
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 537819" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Tell your son to hire a private detective through his attorney NOW. </p><p> HIM <u>telling</u> someone she drove home drunk? Who cares - <strong>prove it. </strong> FUrther question would go to - WHY was she so distraught she was drinking. Did he cause her to drink? See how that works? </p><p>BUT if a private eye can follow her and prove infidelity, prove illegal drug use - prove via pictures thorough unbiased third party witness? That is proof for a judge and goes towards custody. </p><p></p><p>He also had better get his finances in complete shape - and prove he can provide child care - and show that he has done INVESTIGATION and EXTENSIVE interview ON PAPER for each place....not to mention NANNIES and background checks with the state and have THOSE documents available in file for the judge to see that he is MOST serious about his sons welfare should he have to work over - there will be someone to care for his child that is thoroughly checked out. </p><p></p><p>As far as location of new living arrangements - I would put on paper that he has checked with local law enforcenment and put in writing how safe the neighborhood is - and done a child-safe check to see if there are any sex offenders and how close - and have THAT information available to a judge. IN WRITING. DO YOUR HOMEWORK HERE - INTERVIEW NEIGHBORS....go door to door ask them is this a safe building - neighborhood. </p><p></p><p>I would get statements from his pediatritian that he has been in contact and a letter stating so that he is aware who the childs doctor is - where the closest hospital is to his new home.......</p><p></p><p>That he has taken a course in CHILD CPR - and bought a mini - DEFRIBRILATOR.....and has that in his home in case of a life -threatening event - </p><p></p><p>RECEIPTS for all child proofing of the home BEFORE child moves in - even IF he doesn't get complete custody right down to the toilet seat lock......</p><p></p><p>List of all the local child activities sports, swimming, - plays, and libraries, therapiests - and notes on whom he plans to take the child to BEFORE THE DIVORCE - because he will need counseling......</p><p></p><p>Double check on the child safety seat and have a certificate from the local police station that he's gotten it checked and installed right -</p><p></p><p>UNDERSTAND my line of thinking here? </p><p></p><p>THEN put it ALL in a binder - like a report with a cover sheet for the judge to see that your son had done EVERYTHING he can - TO MAKE SURE THAT YOUR SON is safe, andwill have the best of everything -----and care, medical and otherwise.....but most of all - </p><p></p><p>and first page - a picture of him and his son - LOVE. </p><p></p><p>Because with out that? The rest doesn't matter.........</p><p></p><p>AND GET BUSY - because while Mom is out driniking her blue away your son had better PROVE he wants and can do all this MR. MOM stuff. </p><p></p><p>Good Luck. AND GET THAT PRIVATE EYE - and explain also - that he's NOT trying to keep the boy from his Mother - but that you feel based on the info you get from the private eye - that the child isn't safe around his mother until she completes a drug and alcohol and financial counseling courses ------court ordered. </p><p></p><p>GOT IT?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 537819, member: 4964"] Tell your son to hire a private detective through his attorney NOW. HIM [U]telling[/U] someone she drove home drunk? Who cares - [B]prove it. [/B] FUrther question would go to - WHY was she so distraught she was drinking. Did he cause her to drink? See how that works? BUT if a private eye can follow her and prove infidelity, prove illegal drug use - prove via pictures thorough unbiased third party witness? That is proof for a judge and goes towards custody. He also had better get his finances in complete shape - and prove he can provide child care - and show that he has done INVESTIGATION and EXTENSIVE interview ON PAPER for each place....not to mention NANNIES and background checks with the state and have THOSE documents available in file for the judge to see that he is MOST serious about his sons welfare should he have to work over - there will be someone to care for his child that is thoroughly checked out. As far as location of new living arrangements - I would put on paper that he has checked with local law enforcenment and put in writing how safe the neighborhood is - and done a child-safe check to see if there are any sex offenders and how close - and have THAT information available to a judge. IN WRITING. DO YOUR HOMEWORK HERE - INTERVIEW NEIGHBORS....go door to door ask them is this a safe building - neighborhood. I would get statements from his pediatritian that he has been in contact and a letter stating so that he is aware who the childs doctor is - where the closest hospital is to his new home....... That he has taken a course in CHILD CPR - and bought a mini - DEFRIBRILATOR.....and has that in his home in case of a life -threatening event - RECEIPTS for all child proofing of the home BEFORE child moves in - even IF he doesn't get complete custody right down to the toilet seat lock...... List of all the local child activities sports, swimming, - plays, and libraries, therapiests - and notes on whom he plans to take the child to BEFORE THE DIVORCE - because he will need counseling...... Double check on the child safety seat and have a certificate from the local police station that he's gotten it checked and installed right - UNDERSTAND my line of thinking here? THEN put it ALL in a binder - like a report with a cover sheet for the judge to see that your son had done EVERYTHING he can - TO MAKE SURE THAT YOUR SON is safe, andwill have the best of everything -----and care, medical and otherwise.....but most of all - and first page - a picture of him and his son - LOVE. Because with out that? The rest doesn't matter......... AND GET BUSY - because while Mom is out driniking her blue away your son had better PROVE he wants and can do all this MR. MOM stuff. Good Luck. AND GET THAT PRIVATE EYE - and explain also - that he's NOT trying to keep the boy from his Mother - but that you feel based on the info you get from the private eye - that the child isn't safe around his mother until she completes a drug and alcohol and financial counseling courses ------court ordered. GOT IT? [/QUOTE]
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