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I'm angry that women tend to get the custody even when they are not being their best
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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 537984" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>If you haven't been personally sitting in court where the "breadwinner" man wants custody and the "nurturing" mother who has no money also wants custody, you probably haven't seen the reality of court in action. I'm not talking about a guy who gets $50 a week more than mom. I'm talking about a man who has substantially more money than mom and can significantly outspend her. In my own case I was the "nurturing <em>nursing" </em>mom and we called one expert witness. He was the working dad who had nannies and called 7 expert witnesses. Guess who got 51+% percent of the judge's attention, and guess who was the first woman in the nation to be court ordered to wean an infant in 30 days only because dad could provide a better living situation?</p><p></p><p>Let me assure you, once someone gets custody, that's it. You don't want to blow it the first time. MWM, cooler heads prevail. Don't let anyone see you or your son sweat. He can't get angry and lash out, it's a guaranteed lose for a father. He must be gentle and understanding, and so must everyone around him. If he isn't independently very well off, it's all he has to make his case.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 537984, member: 99"] If you haven't been personally sitting in court where the "breadwinner" man wants custody and the "nurturing" mother who has no money also wants custody, you probably haven't seen the reality of court in action. I'm not talking about a guy who gets $50 a week more than mom. I'm talking about a man who has substantially more money than mom and can significantly outspend her. In my own case I was the "nurturing [I]nursing" [/I]mom and we called one expert witness. He was the working dad who had nannies and called 7 expert witnesses. Guess who got 51+% percent of the judge's attention, and guess who was the first woman in the nation to be court ordered to wean an infant in 30 days only because dad could provide a better living situation? Let me assure you, once someone gets custody, that's it. You don't want to blow it the first time. MWM, cooler heads prevail. Don't let anyone see you or your son sweat. He can't get angry and lash out, it's a guaranteed lose for a father. He must be gentle and understanding, and so must everyone around him. If he isn't independently very well off, it's all he has to make his case. [/QUOTE]
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