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I'm angry that women tend to get the custody even when they are not being their best
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<blockquote data-quote="Stephmanietta" data-source="post: 538027" data-attributes="member: 14838"><p>I just recently went though custody issue with my 3 kids. I am the mother, the father got shared custody even though he was staying somewere that the kids were unable to do overnight visits. He somehow convinced the judge to allow him to take 1 of the children at a time, 1 night a week each.</p><p>It was a disaster, once a week he picked up one child in the late evening, and left the other 2 crying and upset that they didnt get to go. He would return them early the next day and was never able to do more than 1 a week. </p><p>He had a pretty serious drinking problem while we lived together and when I vioced concerns about his ability to care for the children I was told that if the kids were with me, a responsible caretaker, then he could do whatever he wanted to within the law, that as long as someone was caring for them while he drank it was not a concern!</p><p>I was shocked, but I would imagine that your son might run into something similar, as long as she is going out drinking while the father of the child is their to care for the child they may not care. Now if she were to leave the child alone it would be another story.</p><p>I beleive that the "unfairness" goes both ways in the courts especially now that they have been accused of being so hard on the dads, they seem to be bending over backwards to accomidate dads. In my experience anyways....please no throwing rotten fruit at me <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/sigh.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sigh:" title="sigh :sigh:" data-shortname=":sigh:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Stephmanietta, post: 538027, member: 14838"] I just recently went though custody issue with my 3 kids. I am the mother, the father got shared custody even though he was staying somewere that the kids were unable to do overnight visits. He somehow convinced the judge to allow him to take 1 of the children at a time, 1 night a week each. It was a disaster, once a week he picked up one child in the late evening, and left the other 2 crying and upset that they didnt get to go. He would return them early the next day and was never able to do more than 1 a week. He had a pretty serious drinking problem while we lived together and when I vioced concerns about his ability to care for the children I was told that if the kids were with me, a responsible caretaker, then he could do whatever he wanted to within the law, that as long as someone was caring for them while he drank it was not a concern! I was shocked, but I would imagine that your son might run into something similar, as long as she is going out drinking while the father of the child is their to care for the child they may not care. Now if she were to leave the child alone it would be another story. I beleive that the "unfairness" goes both ways in the courts especially now that they have been accused of being so hard on the dads, they seem to be bending over backwards to accomidate dads. In my experience anyways....please no throwing rotten fruit at me :sigh: [/QUOTE]
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