The last time I signed in to this website/forum was in 2004. At that time my son was almost 20. He's almost 30 now. Not much has changed. Over the past ten years we have enabled him as so many of you do/have done. He has never held a job for more than six months. He always finds a way to get himself fired. He continues to smoke pot and use any substance he can get his hands on. He never finished college, though we're still paying off student loans. We pay his rent, cell phone and insurance. We even give him spending money. He was hospitalized over Christmas this past year for depression and was finally given a diagnosis of Personality Disorder. He just got another job. Let's see how long this one lasts. I'm not looking for advice right now; I know what we SHOULD be doing but don't. Just wanted to check in and say hi.