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<blockquote data-quote="Elsi" data-source="post: 741785" data-attributes="member: 23349"><p>Naina I’m so sorry you find yourself here. My daughter S has Borderline (BPD) and has followed a very similar path. Everyone is mean to her. Nothing is her fault. There is always drama. I’m afraid to call her or ask how things are going because I know I’ll get sucked in.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I know what you mean. Not that we have kids because we want to grow our own caretakers, but in the natural order of things you expect to develop a more mutual relationship with your adult children, and be able to count on them when you really need help yourself. You and your husband are going through crises of your own right now. She should be helping you. Instead she has to find a crisis of her own so it can be all about her. This does sound very much like borderline. </p><p></p><p>I wish I had a magic answer to make it all easier. Hugs to you. I hope you and your husband are both regaining strength and taking care of yourselves and each other. I’m sorry she’s putting you through this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Elsi, post: 741785, member: 23349"] Naina I’m so sorry you find yourself here. My daughter S has Borderline (BPD) and has followed a very similar path. Everyone is mean to her. Nothing is her fault. There is always drama. I’m afraid to call her or ask how things are going because I know I’ll get sucked in. I know what you mean. Not that we have kids because we want to grow our own caretakers, but in the natural order of things you expect to develop a more mutual relationship with your adult children, and be able to count on them when you really need help yourself. You and your husband are going through crises of your own right now. She should be helping you. Instead she has to find a crisis of her own so it can be all about her. This does sound very much like borderline. I wish I had a magic answer to make it all easier. Hugs to you. I hope you and your husband are both regaining strength and taking care of yourselves and each other. I’m sorry she’s putting you through this. [/QUOTE]
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